Jim, I'm going to reiterate what I said over PM:
This place is here for discussion, advice, and learning (and also a circle jerk and tat shilling, camaraderie and cool ****) and mostly everyone is more than happy to give freely. What you're seeing is not haters and negative vibes but a) people giving the advice you have asked for, either from experience, from an expert perspective, or just an opinion, and b) the reaction to you batting that advice away because you don't like it. You are keen and left-field, which I commend, but, and I mean this in the most supportive way, you are a petulant little **** to people who don't reinforce your expectations. Sometimes ideas are bad, and I've had plenty, but someone telling you how bad an idea is does not make them your enemy. The trolling you see? People are ****ing with you because of your petulance.
If every thread you start ends without success, it does not mean there is a conspiracy against you, it's because you are inviting it by how you respond. Take a second, listen to advice you have asked for, relax. If an idea is strong, it can stand up to scrutiny. If it doesn't, adapt or let it go. This is a big part of design.
This is just a forum for keyboard enthusiasts, no-one is challenging your existence. Again: relax, listen, and learn.
CODA: Sorry lanyusea for singling you out but, Jim, take a look at this thread in which an idea was challenged and the error seen and accepted, gracefully, within 3 posts.
https://geekhack.org/index.php?topic=95004.msg2587258#msg2587258. If you keep digging in, doubling down, and lashing out, you're going to have a bad time.