What's the difference between the force and the force graph of the switch? Aren't they the same thing?
Well, "force" doesn't really mean anything in this context, as the force required to depress the key varies throughout the travel of the key (and that holds true for any keyboard). Perhaps you mean "peak force" or the like, which (as far as I can tell) refers to the minimum amount of force that has to be applied to the switch to activate it.
A force graph plots the amount of force required to depress the key over the duration of the key's travel, if that makes sense. I'd recommend looking at a force graph for a switch that you use, and see if you can see how it relates to what you feel when you press the key.
I think the point that IBI was getting at is that it's not as much the peak force that matters, but moreso things like where it peaks during the travel, how suddenly it comes on etc.
Also how do the acoustics of the keyboard affect ones typing speed and accuracy?
On "clicky" switches (as opposed to switches where the click is not part of the action, but just the noise of bottoming out, eg. Black Alps), the sound generally co-incides with the activation of the switch, so one you hear it you know that you can release it and move on to the next one (obviously the tactility is going to do the same thing, but having both can be helpful)