When you fully lube a switch, you're really making them less noisy and the tactile feel is diminished as well. I can't make a fair comparison because I have 62g clears in two different customs and they sound and feel totally different. The hard anodized titanium above is loud and the tactile feel is still there. On my kmac mini I have the same 62g clears but they feel linear and less noisy. It's actually the quietest of the bunch.
If you didn't like 65g clears solely because they were too heavy on you fingers, I'd suggest 58~62g springs. I wouldn't put anything lower than 55g in clears. I do feel the tactility ("scratchy" feedback) the most in the 55g.