I can't recommend clears highly enough. They're my favourite switch (at least of what I've tried) for exactly the reasons you say you're looking for -- they're pleasantly tactile (much more so than browns), and not too loud. They are certainly heavier than anything you say you've tried. I was a bit nervous to try clears originally as well (because of the weight; coming from blues & browns), but it turned out to be exactly the right choice for me. After so many years primarily using clears, I actually prefer using heavier switches now. Most of my boards are MX Clear, MX Green, or buckling spring. Strangely enough, I still can't stand MX black -- they feel so much heavier to me, heavier even than using the same spring in a different switch.
The feedback from clears does feel a bit different from blues, but I don't find it any worse, just different.
If you like the feel of clears, but they do turn out too heavy for you, there are options to make it lighter. You can buy lighter springs to swap in, or if opening up the switches seems too daunting, you can buy 'zealio' switches from zealpc.net -- a 62g or 65g tactile zealio won't be too much heavier than a MX blue. Either of those options would involve some amount of soldering to get into a board though.
It's been a very long time since I've looked at buying any new boards, so I can't recommend any particular boards to you -- I don't even know what brands sell boards with MX Clears anymore. Hopefully someone else with some more recent buying experience can point you in the right direction on that!
