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Tinder seems to be the very worst one. Just a notch above Adult Friend Finder in terms of the bottom rung quality of animalistic horny meaningless bull****.Tip; just advertise that you'd like to meet physically as soon as possible. Works for me too. I'm not great over text either.
So far Hinge seems to be the most realistic in terms of relationship goals and matchmaking.
Have not tried Bumble or others yet.
I hate this, it sucks. I cannot be witty or sharp over text. They very process of texting means you linger on the words so long you inevitably put too many fingers in the pie and butcher whatever opener or joke you had. Talking face to face is the way to go for me, that's where I shine. I have no chance meeting anyone like this. :(
i think its better to meet people in places where dating isnt the first priority, like chat rooms (way more viable back in the early days of the internet before they started getting spammed by onlyfans bots)
or just meet people IRL lol
i think its better to meet people in places where dating isnt the first priority, like chat rooms (way more viable back in the early days of the internet before they started getting spammed by onlyfans bots)
or just meet people IRL lol
When the source of connection is finding a mate vs finding a friend it puts undue pressure on the situation that otherwise wouldn't be there. My spouse is 100% my best friend and I think the mindset should be shifted from "finding mate" to "finding a best friend" may offer a better starting platform. Best way to find friends is social events where the activity is the main focus. I did intermural volleyball with some coworkers who then would bring their friends to watch, so you meet more people in the process.
So by this point I am coming up on nearly 20 years of being alone. Gone are my 20's, gone are my 30's, supposedly the prime time for finding love and getting laid. I honestly don't know how normal humans do it. Not a clue.
Something must be super wrong with me.
Sometimes I wish I could hire a scientist to just follow me around silently for a week taking notes, then deliver a presentation on everything I'm doing wrong/not doing.
So by this point I am coming up on nearly 20 years of being alone. Gone are my 20's, gone are my 30's, supposedly the prime time for finding love and getting laid. I honestly don't know how normal humans do it. Not a clue.
Something must be super wrong with me.
Sometimes I wish I could hire a scientist to just follow me around silently for a week taking notes, then deliver a presentation on everything I'm doing wrong/not doing.
Are you diagnosed with anything that would affect you mentally/socially?
So by this point I am coming up on nearly 20 years of being alone. Gone are my 20's, gone are my 30's, supposedly the prime time for finding love and getting laid. I honestly don't know how normal humans do it. Not a clue.
Something must be super wrong with me.
Sometimes I wish I could hire a scientist to just follow me around silently for a week taking notes, then deliver a presentation on everything I'm doing wrong/not doing.
Are you diagnosed with anything that would affect you mentally/socially?
So by this point I am coming up on nearly 20 years of being alone. Gone are my 20's, gone are my 30's, supposedly the prime time for finding love and getting laid. I honestly don't know how normal humans do it. Not a clue.
Something must be super wrong with me.
Sometimes I wish I could hire a scientist to just follow me around silently for a week taking notes, then deliver a presentation on everything I'm doing wrong/not doing.
Are you diagnosed with anything that would affect you mentally/socially?
Nah, that's why it ****s me up so bad. I've asked many people over the years, they always say I'm a catch and should 'put myself out there more', then I do that and nothing happens. Maybe they mean I need to date more? But that's the issue, so that advice makes no sense to me.
Life is just unfair. Some people are simply unlucky.