The new Zeal clicky, maybe? Otherwise, you could take a step up to BOX Pink.
BOX Jade is a great switch, but much more tactile than BOX White. There are new, dampened BOX Jades out, but they should also be considerable more tactile than BOX White. Same for Zeal, though.
You could also go to Matias Clicky. Go watch recent Chyros video about those in a good board. A more affordable board is available, Matias Clicky should present an interesting alternative for you.
45 G Topre, either silent or not, should be fine for you. Realforce R3 board is coming out. You can replace the domes with 35 G BKE or something, if 45 G isn't to your liking.
There are other interesting clickies available, such as Kailh Sherbet, OUTEMU Phoenix from Gazzew, and odd tactiles such as TTC Bluish White [almost feels like double-actuation, down then up,] and Kangaroo.
Then there's OUTEMU / Gazzew U4 Boba, which is a popular silent heavy tactile. Should be less-tactile than 55 G Topre [and adjustable], while still being a fairly rich and quiet MX tactile. Very stable, becomes smooth over time, little-wobble.
The Huano fruit lineup offers some interesting things. The Huano Banana feels like an Ergo Clear on steroids - very poppy. Kinda of like a smaller Holy Panda, with a more subtle tactility that engages more throughout the keypress. Loud AF though, because it's long-pole [although not the worst]. Cheap and comes in cool collectible 'fruit can' containers.
