Three months ago i had the same questions like you...
I wanted the best keyboard for my hands , but i am typing for around 40% and the remaining 60% goes to gaming.
I felt in love with blues and their sound until one day i had the chance to test one razer widow ultimate with its cherry blues , at a superstore in my town.
While they were awesome to type on, yep they were too loud , even in a store with backround music, you can hear them.
But i loved the feeling , but i tend to love my wife more haha ,(i dont want to keep her asleep at night while i gaming).
Also i dont want to doubletap when it shouldnt be.
So all these made me to buy a filco with browns!
And i have to tell you i am 100% happy that i took browns over the blues , cause i love them so much.
I have also bought and applied orings on every key and now i feel them more silenced , but with the tactile feeling to be the same.
But thats me.
But as many have stated here and there,whatever board(prefered switches) you buy ,thats only the begining in mechanical keyboards!