Well, the 45g keys on the HHKB feel heavier to my fingers than the browns on the kinesis. I don't like how light the browns are, personally, but I'm trying to get used to the kinesis.
I definitely prefer my HHKB though, to the kinesis, in that I find it more comfortable to type on for long periods of time. In both cases, I bottom out the keys, but the bottoming out on the HHKB is much softer, so not as jarring to my finger joints (that's where most of my pain is). I just have a hard time getting used to how light the browns really are.
In regards to tactility, you do know when a topre has actuated, there is just so little resistance past that point (when the dome collapses), that you basically can't stop your fingers without serious effort. At least I can't. Maybe someone comfortable with the lightness of the browns will be able to.