Has anybody attempted to cancel and get a refund from their vendor before their order has shipped? I know every vendor is different, and we agree to non-cancelable terms, plus all the risk involved in joining GB's in the first place, blah blah etc...but this set appears to be a complete dud. Waiting all these years and paying all that money (this was a $$$ set too, mind you) for something that turned out this poorly feels wrong on every level.