Hi Bro,
Good luck with life, man. **** indeed does happen. My wife left me three years ago and now I'm a single dad with two daughters. Luckily, she stayed in town and we share custody, but it could have gone much worse if she or I had made other decisions. I kept my daughters in mind and my eyes on the future. Tried to not react to the horrible things in front of me.
I can't even step up to the bids on this one, and I don't know your situation, but as another guy who has struggled to keep life together: good luck, keep your head up, situations are temporary.
I've yet to grab one of your caps, but I've seen them at meetups in person and really appreciate the work you do.
Take Care,
MaNiFeX / Matthew