Travel here, look around, form your own opinion. Don't tell people that you're French, because for some reason people have some irrational dislike of the French. Or, you could come to Puerto Rico first. We're the random colony. We have better weather.
The USA varies enormously based on what part of the country you're in. The north/south divide is the main cultural rift, but there are also a lot of differences between the sub-regions and states.
I myself have only spent a week in Europe, divided between London, Paris, and Rome. It wasn't really enough time to get to know the place. I loved Paris, though you people really need to do something about the damn cigarette butts littering the ground everywhere.
EDIT: I just showed this thread to my father, who is much more well traveled than I am (having been to most corners of the earth, East Asia and Australia being the major exception). Last time he was in France was about 10 years ago. His opinions, paraphrased:
is ur country nice?
For the most part, yes. European cities are the nicest in the world, according to him. American cities are fairly nice. Most cities in the world are dirty and filled with poverty (there are, of course, exceptions. ).
One thing America has that is somewhat rare in Europe: true wilderness, and untamed outdoors.
how much cost life there?
Similar to Europe. Very high compared to most of the world. But then, we make a lot of money too.
laws and human rights?
Comparable to Europe, and much better than the rest of the world. Our labor laws have slipped behind Europe, but they're still superior to most of the world. The police are very well funded and vigilant. Crime levels are somewhat higher than Europe, and you need to be somewhat vigilant in large cities. It's not something you really have to worry about, though.
Other quirks he mentioned:
Americans own a lot of
stuffEveryone has a car, everyone drives everywhere
The food is basically the worst in the world
Americans tend to wake up earlier and go to sleep earlier than other peoples (6am to 10pm is common)
Americans are much less hospitable about letting people they don't know well into their homes
Americans tend to exhibit a lot more tolerance towards minorities than other peoples (which I myself thought was odd, but my father insists is mostly true)
And finally, Americans are a lot like everyone else in the world. There are more similarities than differences.
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