Note that with capacitive 'boards, the capacitive switch has absolutely nothing to do with the feel of the key press.
Capacitive rubber domes are missing the second phase of a regular rubber dome where the little button presses on the membrane and the dome itself is being pressed together. So after the snap you have almost linear force/travel until the keycap bottoms out.
Those old capacitive rubber domes probably feel too snappy and strong for our tastes because the dome needs a certain strength to push the keycap up again, after it has been pressed a considerable amount beyond the snap point. The little button mentioned above is not there and thus won't help. Topre solved and perfected this.
Scissor 'boards take another approach by cutting the travel just after the dome snap. With the disadvantage of forcing bottom outs all the time.
Edit: I think I misunderstood your post.