Wow, yer a girl? Yer my age, where are you? lol
Yikes. Hope things get better for ya, Voix. I recommend hugging your favorite Model M- and if that doesn't make you feel better, bash Chad to death with it. We've needed someone to test the "bash someone to death with a Model M and you can just wipe off the blood and keep typing" hypothesis for awhile now....
Posting topless pictures of yourself with keyboards on your head is another sure-fire way to make m... errr... you feel better. :thumb:
While driving, think of positive things, things that would make you happy, like running over your boyfriend. .
Oh trust me, the thought did cross my mind .... =D
Posting topless pictures of yourself with keyboards on your head is another sure-fire way to make m... errr... you feel better. :thumb:
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Wow, yer a girl? Yer my age, where are you? lol
This thought?
I think I already did that on cam4.com ... and I think I even got the highest veiwership that day !
seriously, geekhack needs an official dancer.
1. Open new tab
2. www.google.com
3. ...
4. Profit
seriously, geekhack needs an official dancer.
seriously, geekhack needs an official dancer who's into keyboards... but first she needs to dispatch her boyfriend.
This will not end well. It never ends the way you think it will. ;)
Dump the bastard. I did that over a year and a half ago to the last one and have been much happier.
Good job on dumping your old boyfriend. I'm sure it must have been tough.
*ducks*
Listen to Zooey's She&Him's latest album.
And then marry the leader of a AltPop band.
Yeah, his nick name was the Irish Sheleighly (IrshShlgly). When things got ugly, I would call him Small Fry, and I would go to sleep on the couch hugging a big summer sausage.
I've been working on this apartment with my boyfriend - and I really hate calling him that since I'm going to be 38 in August, its been 10 years and Iln beginning to think I may spend the rest of my good years waiting for him to grow up - painting and cleaning it and doing repairs for it to be inspected and shown to potential renters. We were supposed to be done last week and paid but Chad and I are not working well together on this project and now its been days overdue and I've been struggling to complete it by myself staying there all hours and he's being a brat and ****ing off instead of helping me because he's a passive aggressive little ****head who feels threatened because I'm not only smarter than him but butcher and just as handy. I don't know if really even mean that but I'm ****ing pissed off right now.
Maybe I should go back to smoking pot and dancing naked for a living. At least when I was doing that I got to meet Sting. I really need the will to go finish this job as best I can right now but him just sitting there in the other room is making that really difficult. I need to get past hating his guts and focus on finishing the job but I have no friends out here that I would otherwise turn to in such a position.
(I'm... overweight).
jeez quadibloc, no need to be so honest, remember we cant see you! ;)
I'm hardly qualified to give you much advice, but I think I can say a few things.
Not being there, I can't be sure if you are presenting the situation in a fair way. If he isn't going to work regularly for a paycheck, of course, he doesn't have an excuse.
When you are working 9 to 5, you don't dare to so much around the house that you will be tired and not at your best in the office - and when you get home, you will be tired. So some wives do have to cope with husbands that seem lazy.
But from what you have noted, apparently he is unemployed. And so his self-esteem is crushed. He probably figured you're going to dump him before you got the idea. So the usual way to deal with a man is to coax him and gently reassure his ego. But things have gotten past the stage where you can face doing that.
I assume you wouldn't be saying that if you weren't attractive enough to do that if you wanted to.
You said, though, that you're 38. So that's not going to have much of a future. At around 51, that biological clock will ring, and looks aren't going to be the way you can make it.
I'm 54 and living in another country, and my financial situation is not particularly great at the moment, so I'm not going to talk about wanting you for myself. (I'm also balding and overweight.)
The obvious solution to this mess, besides dumping the guy - I'm not sure if you can avoid that, it would be nice if things weren't so bad that things couldn't be fixed - is getting a day job instead of making money in fits and starts by fixing up real estate. A regular stable career instead of dancing naked for a living.
The trouble is, of course, that the economy tanked and so people have to make their own work in ingenious ways.
Well, actually the apartment I was referring to is currently work for both of us. The job was originally just a repaint of the interior for them to be able to rent it out again, but the job has augmented in scope and completion time by a factor of 4, made all the more difficult since the bloody power isn't on which makes running a vacuum difficult. He is of a different opinion on the importance of the matter in finishing this job in a timely manner, but there is a personal interest on my end since the owner is friend of my father and i would prefer that none of us come out looking like *******s by the time its done. As of the writing of this post, though, I had been staring at that place for three days straight and feeling like I was no closer to finishing at all than I had been before, while he has been less than helpful and not under the same pressure to perform. After yesterday though I am about of the same mind since I just can't shampoo carpet without electricity and I can't make an old place look new by cutting corners and half-assed cosmetics. So **** it, there's only so much I can do.
At this point, I'm probably gonna just let him do the rest himself and go do some work for my Mom on her place - what I was trying to get this job out of the way so I could do - so I can get PAID and actually pay for the stuff I won on ebay - (Model F pc-at and fk-5001). Then whenever he does wrap up that job I can pay the balance on the stuff I was trying to purchase from NorthgateKeyboardRepair. (Chad did feel bad about me not being able to do that so yesterday he did manage to come up with enough cash for me to put down a deposit so he'd hold the stuff for me.)
My biggest frustration with the BF is that he's not an intellectual, so our problem solving techniques are dissimilar to say the least. Plus he IS passive-aggressive (much like my mother) which makes it much harder for me to address the problems he has when I can't directly identify them. Mostly though we have worked out quite a bit in the ten years; it just gets hard for me when I hit a wall and have no where to turn, hence my outburst here. It helped, and had the desired immediate effect of breaking the focus of hostility towards him I was feeling at the time. He actually provided the solution to a good part of what was making me most hostile and since it is unreasonable to expect us to do our job without the proper tools I am less concerned with looking bad and more concerned with getting paid so I will move on to the next thing to solve the rest of the issue.
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jeez quadibloc, no need to be so honest, remember we cant see you! ;)I am a very private person, thus, there are no photographs of myself on my web site. (In fact, what with all the illustrations being diagrams I drew myself, the human form was not even depicted there at all, until I finally managed to sneak in a drawing of a pretty girl as a link banner for the Girl Genius (http://www.girlgeniusonline.com/) comic!)