Move out of her house, easiest way.
Without knowing your mother its too hard to predict how she will react but she sounds overprotective. leave ur phone at home when u go out so she can hear it ring when she calls. keep doing it for a few weeks.
I have a pretty decent group of people that I trust and that aren't too into parties.
I have a pretty decent group of people that I trust and that aren't too into parties.
75% of rapes are committed by someone you KNOW..
//Halverson 100%
Move out of her house, easiest way.
Without knowing your mother its too hard to predict how she will react but she sounds overprotective. leave ur phone at home when u go out so she can hear it ring when she calls. keep doing it for a few weeks.
My parents are divorced, and my dad and step brother joke about moving in with my step brother but I can be ready in a day to go. It sucks ass being that one person in a group whose mom is always calling and me having to go "hold on it's my mom".
Move out of her house, easiest way.
Without knowing your mother its too hard to predict how she will react but she sounds overprotective. leave ur phone at home when u go out so she can hear it ring when she calls. keep doing it for a few weeks.
My parents are divorced, and my dad and step brother joke about moving in with my step brother but I can be ready in a day to go. It sucks ass being that one person in a group whose mom is always calling and me having to go "hold on it's my mom".
You definitely do not want to leave ur mother to go live with your father.
In the obvious sense, the most trusted man in her life (second only to her father), Your father has betrayed her..
--That's how she will frame it in her mind..--
----However the story happened, or who's fault it actually was, is unimportant--
Now, if Hunterangel121 goes and leaves, the 3rd most trusted male in her life would've left and betrayed her..
So..... you can see how a person would either drink themselves to death or end up in a nut-house should that happen..
DO NOT under any circumstance even HINT at the possibility of moving out/ away..
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I'd talk about filial piety, but i know white people don't jive wit'dat.. so.. that's as far as it goes..
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1. Don't leave parents house
2. Change internet name to Tpsquared
3. ???
4. Wizzard mode activated
Step bro lives on his own. So it wouldn't be a terrible thing. It'd be a roommate situation where I wouldn't have to have my mom call me all the time. Or maybe that's backwards, maybe she'll call more.
I'm using an iphone for the week, so maybe I fiddle with find my friends and add my mom?
Step bro lives on his own. So it wouldn't be a terrible thing. It'd be a roommate situation where I wouldn't have to have my mom call me all the time. Or maybe that's backwards, maybe she'll call more.
I'm using an iphone for the week, so maybe I fiddle with find my friends and add my mom?
Move out if you need to but that will probably not resolve your issue.
Sounds like Mom may be worried but also may just need someone to talk to. And you have been elected.
Act like a grown-up. Its time to have "the talk". Establish some boundaries. Expect to make some compromises, since you live in her house.
Are you contributing to the household or are you leeching? At 19, presuming you have a job, you should be paying board. And contributing to household chores, as you would if you had a roommate.
Lastly, mom may need a friend or boyfriend. Help her find one. Encourage her to date or go our with friends (things that interest them...).
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Step bro lives on his own. So it wouldn't be a terrible thing. It'd be a roommate situation where I wouldn't have to have my mom call me all the time. Or maybe that's backwards, maybe she'll call more.
I'm using an iphone for the week, so maybe I fiddle with find my friends and add my mom?
I would recommend against letting your mom use the "Find My Iphone" feature -- that will just let her track you at all times and actually worsens the situation. You want to establish healthy boundaries with your mom. If you live with her, it's hard to make up any ultimatums, but I think your best course of action is having a good sit-down talk with her. You need to make it clear that you understand her concern, but you also need independence as an adult. She needs to trust that she raised you with enough good judgment to make decisions on your own. Good luck!
I understand that she's worried and wants to check up. But it's getting excessive compared to a few months ago. I give her a time when I'll be back home, tell her where I'm going and what I'll be doing. Everytime around 8, and then once again at 10(when she goes to sleep) I'll get a call asking when I'll be home and where I'm at. And I understand, cause a 19 year old out in Miami Beach usually means drinking and partying. But I don't drink(I'll sometimes smoke with some friends but that's it), I don't party, I have a pretty decent group of people that I trust and that aren't too into parties.
I understand that she's worried and wants to check up. But it's getting excessive compared to a few months ago. I give her a time when I'll be back home, tell her where I'm going and what I'll be doing. Everytime around 8, and then once again at 10(when she goes to sleep) I'll get a call asking when I'll be home and where I'm at. And I understand, cause a 19 year old out in Miami Beach usually means drinking and partying. But I don't drink(I'll sometimes smoke with some friends but that's it), I don't party, I have a pretty decent group of people that I trust and that aren't too into parties.
At 19 and still living at home, you are still under her thumb, to an extent.
That said, stop being at her beck and call.
I'm not saying ghost her, just answer less when she calls. Sometimes wait a bit and call her back with, "Sorry, we had some loud music going and I didn't hear it ring." Sorry, were in a theater and my phone was off." "Sorry, I was driving and couldn't answer."
This makes you responsible, but makes it less convenient for her, with luck, she will back off and stop calling so much. If she comes back with "you need to call back in X number of minutes", you know the relationship has become abusive and needs to change, either her getting help, or you getting out.
If my mum called me even once a week I'd go ****ing nuts xD . But she doesn't, she knows I live my own life.
I understand that she's worried and wants to check up. But it's getting excessive compared to a few months ago. I give her a time when I'll be back home, tell her where I'm going and what I'll be doing. Everytime around 8, and then once again at 10(when she goes to sleep) I'll get a call asking when I'll be home and where I'm at. And I understand, cause a 19 year old out in Miami Beach usually means drinking and partying. But I don't drink(I'll sometimes smoke with some friends but that's it), I don't party, I have a pretty decent group of people that I trust and that aren't too into parties.
Is there any way that I can talk to her without a massive lecture or a fight between us? I've always had trouble trying to talk to her because it turns into a lecture and becomes repetitive.
It used to bug me when mom called and I was doin' stuff, but as I get older it bugs me less and less because I realize that one day she won't be there to talk to so I try to appreciate the moment even if it is sometimes inopportune.
Hope that helps! I'd love to have these problems, in all honesty. Not having my mother is a lot worse than the arguments and lectures I received at your age.
Hope that helps! I'd love to have these problems, in all honesty. Not having my mother is a lot worse than the arguments and lectures I received at your age.
Chuckdee is stupid in almost all of the ways possible.
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Hahaha.. dude, you're old and you're gonna die soon.. About 10 years left before you become incontinent, if you're not that already..
Let me teach you something, There's nothing you can win against someone on the internet..
Stop playing at being immature, you're just reaching now. hahaha..
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Hahaha.. dude, you're old and you're gonna die soon.. About 10 years left before you become incontinent, if you're not that already..
Let me teach you something, There's nothing you can win against someone on the internet..
Stop playing at being immature, you're just reaching now. hahaha..
You think I'm old. Ok.
You have to make it clear that you're living a life of your own, which brings with it separation from your parents.
You have to make it clear that you're living a life of your own, which brings with it separation from your parents.That only works so well when living under their roof.
Well I had to go through that just recently as I moved in with them for two months or so. My mum wanted me to be there with everything they did, so I had to talk it out with her that I have my own life to live.You have to make it clear that you're living a life of your own, which brings with it separation from your parents.That only works so well when living under their roof.
I wish this was even on the radar as a problem in my life that mattered. Cancer killed my dad last summer, your time with your parents is limited, sir. When my mom calls... i stop what i'm doing and talk until she's done.
Suggest texting instead. Say you can't call you're about to watch a movie, or can't call out for dinner. She'll eventually get the message you can't call, but you can still talk to her and that's all she needs.
Insane? That's pretty funny.Move out if you need to but that will probably not resolve your issue.
Sounds like Mom may be worried but also may just need someone to talk to. And you have been elected.
Act like a grown-up. Its time to have "the talk". Establish some boundaries. Expect to make some compromises, since you live in her house.
Are you contributing to the household or are you leeching? At 19, presuming you have a job, you should be paying board. And contributing to household chores, as you would if you had a roommate.
Lastly, mom may need a friend or boyfriend. Help her find one. Encourage her to date or go our with friends (things that interest them...).
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Are you insane.. male polar bears often kill the mother's pups so that he can have her to himself..
This behavior though not as violent in the human world, is almost just as pervasive among newly inducted males..
Ouch.
Hope that helps! I'd love to have these problems, in all honesty. Not having my mother is a lot worse than the arguments and lectures I received at your age.
Chuckdee is stupid in almost all of the ways possible.
However, he is right about mothers..
Mothers are in the end human beings.. Human beings don't live for very long... Each new generation will preceive the old generation as having outdated software.
But it's far more important to receive the GOOD aspects of their legacy drivers/ file systems, rather than fight the update entirely..
Because sooner or later, that old machine breaks, and you will be #True-Ronery..
At least in Sifo culture, wives are disposable.. Mothers are not.. This ODD juxtaposition exists for a reason..
The one person LEAST likely to harm you (On purpose) should theoretically be your best friend/ most trusted advisor.