OK, so I got my new monitors, so over my vacation, I decided to get a colorometer. Using instantkamera's advice, I bought the cheapest Spyder3 I could find (thanks, Amazon Prime), and decided to use dispcalGUI. Well, let's just say that I went back to the Spyder3Express software, and with a little handiwork, I calibrated both my work monitors. After doing so, it's easy to tell that there is definitely some black magic involved in display-making, because even after the calibration, they still looked a little different from one another. I tweaked the color settings on each of the monitors, so now they look pretty close. So two things:
1.) Eye-balling calibration is not a good substitute for real calibration.
2.) Does anyone have recommendations for calibration software (I have the hardware)? DispCalGUI is hard to use (for my noobness), and I need something that can calibrate multiple monitors. I had to do some trickery to get it to work with Spyder3express.
And as instantkamera mentioned, Spyder3 (Express, anyway) is not good calibration software. Even my noob ass could see that.