Been busy, so haven't had time to get back here for a few days. Tried to get some photos today, but honestly, they came out so crap it's impossible to see the wear pattern. I can't get the angle + lighting to work. Honestly, the best way to see exactly what the wear is like would be to put a piece of 2000+ grit sandpaper on your fingertip and bottom out the key say, 2000 times probably. You get a nasty divot as a result, worse if your finger is offset from center. Some folks like that, I happen to hate it. The fun one is K/D - I actually wear the edges off those.
Long short though; keycap wear is lessened if you don't full-travel the keys, AKA bottom out. Bottoming out as I do (which is due to nerve damage) adds to the wear, and there's not much that can be done about it. O-ring damping helps, but only so much, and only works on Cherry for obvious reasons. Unless somebody invented square O-rings I can put on Alps when I wasn't looking and/or a way to damp buckling spring more than lithium grease. The two prime wear factors just come down to fingers resting on the keycaps combined with the added wear from bottoming out. But that's true of any hard stop, and like I said, in my case it's unavoidable. Also, you can't compare my loading to office loading. One, most office keyboards see ~8 hours a day of intermittent use at probably between 80-100WPM. This is 130WPM+ for 16+ hours a day with few breaks.
And for the record, I don't troll about this stuff - this is pretty much how I make my living. Kinda important as a result, you know? Anyhow, I managed to get my hands on a POM set for an M two-piece. Going to give these a try and see how they work - I'm typing even more than usual, so they'll either show the wear quick or not. Unfortunately or fortunately, had to install them on my M5-2 in it's unrepaired state so I'm probably going to be harder on them than usual from the annoyance.
Will give photos another try when I can get a bit to tear down one of the Cherry's. Really want to get a good shot of the D/F/C keycaps - they're a set of unknown Cherry doubleshots and I've actually WORN INTO THE LETTERING. Seriously. If you take a fingernail over it, you can feel the letter. Need to figure out who made 'em so I can make sure I never get 'em again.