I've become the exact reason sniping wins,
Auction sniping is efficient and elegant. It costs pennies and then only if you win. Auction Sniper gives you a few free ones to start.
You are always sure of getting by with the least amount possible, and it is automatic. And you never fuel any bidding wars.
There are 2 good methods. If you are serious about an item, put in a snipe at the maximum amount you would be willing to pay as soon as you see it, then walk away and forget it.
Or, put in a lowball snipe on every item that comes along, and eventually you may win one.
Snipes can be changed or cancelled until the last 5 minutes, and, if there is a Buy-It-Now with no other bidders, your last-minute snipe will kill the Buy-It-Now and you will get it at the starting price.
There is simply no reason not to snipe except for some sort of "purist" or "elitist" attitude that is irrational and counter-productive.