Jesus will be anybody's bro!
no i wont
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Only a select few.
This thread has some scary-sad overtones. No way to be healthy sitting in front of a monitor. That's just sad. Happiness is relative, and I say do what makes you happy.
Let me ask you introverts this:
Someone looks you dead in the eye, has a huge smile, says "Hi!" and is genuinely being affable and friendly. Is this uncomfortable, scary, unwanted? If so, this is definitely a problem with your value system.
Or, is it the fear/concern that when you go out and interact that no one will be friendly, like you, do things with you, love you? That's a phobia (irrational fear).
It's not your business what someone thinks of you.
Yes, it's nice to be liked, but it's not important to have peoples approval. At some point ya gotta stand on your own. Stand short or stand tall, but ya gotta stand. Find what works for you, but I can tell you this with absolute conviction: You only get out what you put in. So you want something? Now you know what you need to do to get it, and it's not guaranteed that you will get it. If you don't play, you can't win. And for what it's worth…it's a numbers game. VOLUME to sift through the MASSES to find what will be a good fit. You're not that special, one-of-a-kind person that there is no match for. It's out there, but you prolly won't bump into them in front of your 'outer, at Starbucks, or next to you at work (but it could happen). And once you do it, it becomes easier. The worst that can happen is that you'll get no measurable result that you're happy with, but you won't go backwards…you'll get better at it, and then you won't be writing sad posts on GH. You'll be buying too many keyboards and other stupid ****, but you'll be living and living on your own happier terms.
