Yeah graphite lubes would be bad in this situation for the reasons provided. In the olden days of CPU overclocking, certain chips would need traces drawn on the chip with a pencil. It can conduct that well.
nubbinator has a lube comparison coming up.
Still waiting on the stuff to actually ship to me. I should be getting the Molybdenum disulfide soon. I went with that as a dry lube for the testing since it's supposed to have good lubrication properties, likes plastic and doesn't necessarily need to be in suspension, and it's non-conductive (or at least not enough to cause any problems).
I should also be getting some Teflon dry lube from CPTBadAss.
Fair warning, that molybdenum is a 50 state carcinogen, not just in California. Just wear latex gloves and wash them after and you will be fine. I am not sure what level of exposure increases risk by a statisticaly significant amount, but our supervisors in the Navy were anal about that. We had a couple parts that were coated with it as a permanent coating and had to be cleaned and greased every flight.