i wonder why i thought that the filcos had this option.
i use a variety of oses. mostly freebsd and openbsd. i don't use xorg, and i don't think there's a way to remap on the console. i just love hardware solutions that always work.
so the only boards with (a) ctrl on the home row, or (b) ctrl and caps lock switchable, are:
* realforce 86u tenkeyless
* realforce 87u tenkeyless
* happy hacking pro 2
* happy hacking lite 2
yeah?
thanks for all the replies! <3