That's what they call a trade secret, I guess...
Anyway, choices in terms of behind-the-neck cans are quite limited, generally between junk and entry-level. Maybe that's because they tend to be used for sports and such. Sennheiser PMX100s should be OK, and Koss KSC-55s, while known to be rather uncomfortable, are quite decent-sounding as well.
BTW, most "big" cans are not nearly as heavy as you think. While oldschool closed ones back in the '70s could easily weigh more than a pound, modern open ones rarely exceed 300 g sans cable (their closed cousins are a bit heavier but not that much). Occasionally they even approach 200 g, like my trusty old HD590 (still one of the most comfortable headphones ever, provided you don't run out of headband adjustment that is). The comfier ones can usually be worn for hours on end with no problems.
Anyway, it is always a good idea to state desired uses and price range.