I am fairly new to mech keyboards, so haven't been able to try all the switch types, but I'm trying to narrow down ones that I will actually find usable for lengthy typing sessions. Quietness is definitely a big deal for me, but I have so far found the Cherry MX Red Silents too soft (lots of accidentally pressed keys) and the Silent Blacks a bit heavy. There doesn't seem to be a middle ground silent option, unless anyone can suggest another brand that might be close, Gateron maybe? I have heard the Cherry MX Nature White switches are kind of an in-between of the Blacks and Reds, but obviously they don't have a specific Silenced version... I'm aware I may need to compromise slightly on this, just as long as it isn't loud. That said, I have not seen the Nature White switches available to buy separately, they only seem available on pre-made boards, and I need switches for a custom board. I definitely prefer linear over tactile, and I definitely don't want clicky.
I know you can get switch testers, but I find this rather limiting as I've found I only really get a sense of a switch after using it a few days.
Any advice would be much appreciated.