I believe the desoldering braid or wick has flux in it to help reflow the old solder and the braid soaks it up. Videos I have seen indicate you put the wick on top and press the soldering iron into it. You have to have enough heat to heat the solder through the wick.
i'm curios to know how it all ended ?
not to long ago i was in the same kind of boat needed to de-solder a board but wanted a good solution so i bought a "Aoyue 474A++" de-soldering station..
it seemed that watching youtube vids of people de-soldering is one thing but doing it your self is a complete different thing.
Also i needed to de-solder switches that had led's that's a pain in the ....
ahh well i did ruin a couple of switches .. but that was my spare pcb so no worries.. i now learned how to de-solder like a pro without damaging pcb or even one switch i took me a while.. having two hotswap boards i now prefer solder boards because it's so easy to de-solder .. it takes time to clean the pcb after wards from all the flux and if it's not a switch with led's it's even easier...
i use liquid flux that is save for electronics even using a de-soldering machine having de-soldering braid is a good idea when led's are involved ..
Would love to hear about your experience..