Okay, to answer some questions, yes I know he isn't/hasn't been online, I am just venting a bit I guess.
If I hear no response by the end of the week (20th) I am going to contact paypal.
I am a VERY understanding person, I don't want to come off as sounding like an ass from those previous posts. I have dealt with members before about buying things that they couldn't ship out for awhile and the item is put on "hold" for me and no money was exchanged, I waited on the member for 2 weeks and they still weren't ready to sell so I moved on, no hard feelings since there was plenty of communication and no money was exchanged yet.
If he is having some personal or family problems (I think we have all been there) I completely apologize and understand.
I still really want these but the clear tops are going on a board I am going to be building very soon and if they aren't here the board is going to be put on hold since I am not going to desolder all the leds, desolder the switches and open them up again. I am going to ask around now if anyone has any of these I can buy off of them if I don't hear back from rarar by the end of the week.
Bottom line, I wouldn't mind ONE BIT if I I at least had some communication with him about this, but I don't want to wait around for 45 days and him to have disappeared leaving me out money and time.