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Offline iri

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #150 on: Thu, 27 June 2013, 16:32:36 »
my spanish teacher is from colombia. at first sight, i thought she was one of the millions of immigrants from central asia that we have here.
(...)Whereas back then I wrote about the tyranny of the majority, today I'd combine that with the tyranny of the minorities. These days, you have to be careful of both. They both want to control you. The first group, by making you do the same thing over and over again. The second group is indicated by the letters I get from the Vassar girls who want me to put more women's lib in The Martian Chronicles, or from blacks who want more black people in Dandelion Wine.
I say to both bunches, Whether you're a majority or minority, bug off! To hell with anybody who wants to tell me what to write. Their society breaks down into subsections of minorities who then, in effect, burn books by banning them. All this political correctness that's rampant on campuses is b.s.

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #151 on: Thu, 27 June 2013, 17:33:36 »
Well, majority is very... Russian. I guess it's a cultural thing, but I wouldn't touch them even with a ten-foot pole.
why?

  • Looks. If I go to Karlovy Vary or random porn site, I can almost always tell whether the woman is Russian, or not. Some of them are textbook examples of sluttiness (based on looks).
  • Behavior. My experience is that Russian tourists are the most arrogant in the whole Europe. For example a woman that insisted on entering the St. Peter's Basilica dressed as a slut. Yeah, she was Russian.
  • Nationalism. AFAIK many Russians still believe that the Russian Empire can exist again; I've heard random Russians say stuff like "Czechoslovakia 1968? 10/10, would invade again".
  • Mentality.  It's hard to explain... Anyone who's read byliny and compared them to other European folklore probably knows what I mean. Completely different values. It's like when Americans occupied Japan after WW2 and had hard time understanding Japanese culture and society.

regardless, calling women sluts is a bad look bro
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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #152 on: Thu, 27 June 2013, 17:55:20 »
Well, majority is very... Russian. I guess it's a cultural thing, but I wouldn't touch them even with a ten-foot pole.
why?

  • Looks. If I go to Karlovy Vary or random porn site, I can almost always tell whether the woman is Russian, or not. Some of them are textbook examples of sluttiness (based on looks).
  • Behavior. My experience is that Russian tourists are the most arrogant in the whole Europe. For example a woman that insisted on entering the St. Peter's Basilica dressed as a slut. Yeah, she was Russian.
  • Nationalism. AFAIK many Russians still believe that the Russian Empire can exist again; I've heard random Russians say stuff like "Czechoslovakia 1968? 10/10, would invade again".
  • Mentality.  It's hard to explain... Anyone who's read byliny and compared them to other European folklore probably knows what I mean. Completely different values. It's like when Americans occupied Japan after WW2 and had hard time understanding Japanese culture and society.

regardless, calling women sluts is a bad look bro

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #153 on: Fri, 14 March 2014, 14:05:01 »
how the **** did i post here
(...)Whereas back then I wrote about the tyranny of the majority, today I'd combine that with the tyranny of the minorities. These days, you have to be careful of both. They both want to control you. The first group, by making you do the same thing over and over again. The second group is indicated by the letters I get from the Vassar girls who want me to put more women's lib in The Martian Chronicles, or from blacks who want more black people in Dandelion Wine.
I say to both bunches, Whether you're a majority or minority, bug off! To hell with anybody who wants to tell me what to write. Their society breaks down into subsections of minorities who then, in effect, burn books by banning them. All this political correctness that's rampant on campuses is b.s.

-Ray Bradbury

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #154 on: Fri, 14 March 2014, 14:06:27 »
how the **** did i post here

iri are you on pain meds? :P

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #155 on: Fri, 14 March 2014, 14:13:05 »
i'm not in 'murica, and prescription "pain meds" here aren't heavy drugs. i'm just smoking opium. and there is no possibility to delete an accidental post on geekhack :(
(...)Whereas back then I wrote about the tyranny of the majority, today I'd combine that with the tyranny of the minorities. These days, you have to be careful of both. They both want to control you. The first group, by making you do the same thing over and over again. The second group is indicated by the letters I get from the Vassar girls who want me to put more women's lib in The Martian Chronicles, or from blacks who want more black people in Dandelion Wine.
I say to both bunches, Whether you're a majority or minority, bug off! To hell with anybody who wants to tell me what to write. Their society breaks down into subsections of minorities who then, in effect, burn books by banning them. All this political correctness that's rampant on campuses is b.s.

-Ray Bradbury

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #156 on: Fri, 14 March 2014, 14:15:50 »
i'm not in 'murica, and prescription "pain meds" here aren't heavy drugs. i'm just smoking opium. and there is no possibility to delete an accidental post on geekhack :(
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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #157 on: Fri, 14 March 2014, 23:02:31 »
Ohh, dating advice?  I suck at that.

So there's a cute social worker at one of the nut houses I visit as part of my job.  How do I ask her out without it being awkward?  Ask her to grab a coffee or lunch one day?  Ask her hiking?  Regal her with stories about how I fended off the crazy hoards to see her?  Piss my pants out of nervousness and awkwardly leave?

Awaiting demik's answer about how I'm a ***** and wuss and how I need to HTFU.

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #158 on: Fri, 14 March 2014, 23:14:03 »
Ohh, dating advice?  I suck at that.

So there's a cute social worker at one of the nut houses I visit as part of my job.  How do I ask her out without it being awkward?  Ask her to grab a coffee or lunch one day?  Ask her hiking?  Regal her with stories about how I fended off the crazy hoards to see her?  Piss my pants out of nervousness and awkwardly leave?

Awaiting demik's answer about how I'm a ***** and wuss and how I need to HTFU.
Sure, just ask her out to coffee :3

Just end one of your happier conversations with "Hey...[slight pause]...do you wanna grab a cup of coffee sometime?" /smile.

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Offline iri

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #159 on: Sat, 15 March 2014, 03:06:00 »
So there's a cute social worker at one of the nut houses I visit as part of my job.  How do I ask her out without it being awkward?  Ask her to grab a coffee or lunch one day?  Ask her hiking?  Regal her with stories about how I fended off the crazy hoards to see her?  Piss my pants out of nervousness and awkwardly leave?
hiking around los angeles is awesome. so, ask her to grab a coffee.
(...)Whereas back then I wrote about the tyranny of the majority, today I'd combine that with the tyranny of the minorities. These days, you have to be careful of both. They both want to control you. The first group, by making you do the same thing over and over again. The second group is indicated by the letters I get from the Vassar girls who want me to put more women's lib in The Martian Chronicles, or from blacks who want more black people in Dandelion Wine.
I say to both bunches, Whether you're a majority or minority, bug off! To hell with anybody who wants to tell me what to write. Their society breaks down into subsections of minorities who then, in effect, burn books by banning them. All this political correctness that's rampant on campuses is b.s.

-Ray Bradbury

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #160 on: Tue, 18 March 2014, 15:05:52 »
I advise you to only talk to people still married for at least 10 years.

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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #161 on: Tue, 18 March 2014, 15:07:36 »
I advise you to only talk to people still married for at least 10 years.


What does marriage have to do with dating?  ::)
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Re: Dating advice
« Reply #162 on: Tue, 18 March 2014, 15:38:10 »

nut houses I visit as part of my job

coffee or lunch one day?  Ask her hiking?


If you are less of a nut case than the others around her, you start off with some advantage, at least.

Coffee or lunch is as benign and non-threatening as it gets. Try to walk in around break time.

I have been married for almost 22 years, and our first date was a hike in the mountains.
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