Well, first of all, the stabilizers don't NEED to stand up completely. No necessity for it. They seem to have been reengineered in the bends. Maybe these are the ones that were designed to work with LEDs? I'm not sure. But they seem to look like they go up enough to work with a keycap on.
Secondly, there is nothing wrong with having the switches turned, as you might have determined based on every other post in this thread.
Lastly, are you planning on replacing the caps? Because if so, what difference does a little blemish (that I can't even see in the video because of no focus) on a cap make? If you are, and it's a really big deal, then return it. You don't seem to be happy with it, and you have a valid reason to return it.