So, if I use the SDL pinout from KbdBabel, and combine that info with some multimeter tests, I get the projected pinout on the last image (please check it, all corrections are welcome). One thing: "1" should be floating just like "6", but there's two bridges connecting it to GND. If the pin on the SDL cable is floating, that shouldn't be a problem... but I'm tempted to cut those bridges with an X-Acto knife or similar, just in case. Now I need to find a pin header small enough to fit there. I guess I'll butcher an old sound card or something, standard pin headers are too big.
I would love to buy those connectors, and SDL cables as well, but we have a bit of a nuclear war with customs down here. I'm still waiting for two Teensy clones I bought in november, and I'm receiving packages with a delay of 100 days or more. It's a nightmare.