IMO, here are the best options:
Filco TKL
Realforce 87u
Coolermaster Novatouch TKL
You can get the Filco with whichever Cherry MX switch you like (although clears are a bit scarce right now). It's a great quality, solid board. I would recommend Browns for both typing and gaming. The tactile bump is small and some say they hardly notice it, but it definitely helps to define the actuation point and prevents accidental presses. Best of both worlds, IMHO, with very little compromise on either side (typing and gaming).
The Realforce and Coolermaster use Topre capacitive switches which are really nice to type on and have a more "solid" feel. The Coolermaster has MX compatible sliders, so you can use any aftermarket MX keycaps on it, the Realforce doesn't and Topre keycap sets are hard to find if you want to change them at any point.
However, ALL Cherry MX switches will be louder than Topre capacitive switches unless you mod them. Adding rubber orings to the keycap stems can improve the bottoming out noise, but it still leaves the release noise. It's not all that loud, but you mention that noise would be an issue. With Topre boards you can mod them to even silence the release noise. On the other hand, as a general statement, Cherry MX switches CAN be better for gaming where timing is critical. You can get the switch close to its actuation point and hold it there for really fast response, whereas with Topre switches have a different force profile and tend to "collapse" more suddenly, so you can't "half press" them as easily. Also there is something about the more "industrial" feeling of MX switches which works well with gaming. They somehow feel more precise, but that's a personal opinion of course.
Loudest to quitest: Blues / Greens >> Whites >> Clears / Browns / Reds / Blacks >> oring modded Clears / Browns / Reds / Blacks >> Topre >> Silenced Topre.
You can mod MX switches to be as quiet or quieter than Topre switches, but it's pretty extreme (opening the switches, which means desoldering them if you have a plate mounted board).