I'll post my side since synjin decided to make all of this public.
Synjin and I have spoke off and on since I first joined. I have always gave him benefit of the doubt when drama comes up, and have never judged him for it. He approached me needing to fund some new purchases and we agreed and two items and a price. This was around noon EST on Wednesday. I asked about shipping and he said he was in class and couldn't ship them until the following morning. The next day we spoke some more about random topics, and I asked about shipping again. This was in the afternoon. He said he was in class until late and his wife had the caps and would be shipping them and he would have the tracking info shortly. We last spoke last evening around 7-8pm. I pmd him twice today asking for shipping info, and decided at 3pm today that I was going to just cancel the invoice due the uneasy feeling I had, and the zero response about shipping info. I received tracking about 10 minutes after that.
Since then synjin has posted all this bull****. I did not know that a cancellation request through pp would freeze any funds. Call me naive, stupid, whatever, I don't care. I have never had this happen to me. In regards to long GBs, this is not a gb. This is a transaction amongst two individuals for $400. I do expect the caps to be shipped quickly. I expect it to be your number one priority.
While we are here, I work full time 40-50hr weeks and go to college full time in the evenings. I am able to have things i trade or sell shipped within 24hrs normally. There have been circumstances where it has been 24-48, but I communicate that to the other person in advance. I guess what I'm trying to say is that USPS shipping is convenient and should not take long to ship.
Regardless of everything, I apologize for freezing your funds. As soon as I receive the caps, j will close the dispute, since if j do it now I will be unable to open one in the future.
If anyone has any questions for me, or question my morality in all of this, the floor is yours. I'll be as transparent as I can since synjin decided to do this.