I have been using dampened sliders from an old Apple keyboard, but the click hasn't been consistent ever since.
The housing is also different between the dampened complicated Alps switches and standard ones (e.g. your clicky white switches): there are extra little plastic bumps that the little dampers run into. I’m not sure the damping quite works the way it’s intended to if you swap the dampened sliders into other housings; I haven’t extensively experimented though.
Anyhow, I find the original dampened Alps switches to be not tactile enough, and a bit too stiff. They end up feeling kind of mushy. Matias quiet switches have really satisfying tactile leaves, I think.
In fact, I think my favorite combination out of the parts you have available would be the the housings from the dampened switches from your Apple keyboard, possibly the springs from the white Alps switches (I’m not precisely sure, these might be the same as the springs in the dampened switches), and the tactile leaves from the Matias switches. The Matias tactile leaves are a slightly different shape, but I think they’d still fit in the complicated Alps housings. If feeling really ambitious, I’d even cut a few loops off each spring, to reduce the switch stiffness a bit.