Just be aware that people are going to be cautious of you, until there is actual proof things have changed. Don't let that discourage you if this is the truth. You went back on your word a few times, so it is understandable they would feel that way.Yeah, It's understandable, I can see what I did in the past was really stupid and immature and I'm trying to work on not being that.
It's nice to see that you're trying to be better.Yes, forsure T_T
Good luck, and just remember for the future, trust and respect are worth more than a couple hundred dollars.
I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused
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I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused
this hardly seems a formal apology to me, i dont want to sour this thread but if you would like to apologize i think you should acknowledge and explain the mistakes that were made, not shrug them off and blame immaturity
i really do hope you are sincere, i just feel like perhaps in the downtime you have had and being able to read people thoughts and feelings on the issue a more thoughtful first post could have happened
Stealing my saxy gif...
Stealing my saxy gif...
Wrong, sir. I used it before you. Tis you that stole from thee ;)
Yeah, sorry bout the un detailed post, sorta busy with homework, I just noticed I was unmuted so I posted this.
Let me go into some more detail.
I am sorry that I tried to sell the Friday Clack. At points I was considering selling it for profit, and that is a rotten thing for me to have done. Sorta glad it went to someone who needed it for free :)
I'm sorry about the drama that I caused following the incident, with the gifs, the avatar, my sig, ect. ect. ect... I was just pissed at that moment but I didn't really see what was going on from everyone else's point of view, only my own. Being muted for a week helped me realize the severity of what I had done, and how stupid it was to do it.
I'll post some more later, but I got some history to do.
Yeah, sorry bout the un detailed post, sorta busy with homework, I just noticed I was unmuted so I posted this.
Let me go into some more detail.
I am sorry that I tried to sell the Friday Clack. At points I was considering selling it for profit, and that is a rotten thing for me to have done. Sorta glad it went to someone who needed it for free :)
I'm sorry about the drama that I caused following the incident, with the gifs, the avatar, my sig, ect. ect. ect... I was just pissed at that moment but I didn't really see what was going on from everyone else's point of view, only my own. Being muted for a week helped me realize the severity of what I had done, and how stupid it was to do it.
I'll post some more later, but I got some history to do.
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This has now turned into an intervention thread
You can start by not thread crapping (in this (http://geekhack.org/index.php?topic=42922.120) thread) on your first day back.Yeah, moose pointed it out, I removed the post.
You can start by not thread crapping (in this (http://geekhack.org/index.php?topic=42922.120) thread) on your first day back.
Yeah, honestly I should have just not said anything once you talked to me, just layed low, and kept the clack, and then none of this would have happened T_TlolGive him a chance.
I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice. But at least this time rarar has come back on his own & is trying to make a mends, and isn't doing so because I was forcing him. Instead he's doing it because he wants to which does add some sincerity to his words.
Rarar, tread carefully. It's good that you want people to point out your faults and I hope that it makes you behave like less of an ass. Just don't give up like you did last time and please, PLEASE don't let the words of others influence you into doing something stupid. Also, understand that this isn't something that can be fixed easily. Nobody's gonna back you up until you prove that your attitude has changed.
Church, I agree with this 100%. Glad to see you back though. Never want to see anyone drop off the forum.lolGive him a chance.
I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice. But at least this time rarar has come back on his own & is trying to make a mends, and isn't doing so because I was forcing him. Instead he's doing it because he wants to which does add some sincerity to his words.
Rarar, tread carefully. It's good that you want people to point out your faults and I hope that it makes you behave like less of an ass. Just don't give up like you did last time and please, PLEASE don't let the words of others influence you into doing something stupid. Also, understand that this isn't something that can be fixed easily. Nobody's gonna back you up until you prove that your attitude has changed.
Give him a chance.
Give him a chance.
Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.
I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice.
You can start by not thread crapping (in this (http://geekhack.org/index.php?topic=42922.120) thread) on your first day back.Yeah, moose pointed it out, I removed the post.
Pho, you don't need to put yourself on the line again, any stupid decision I make should be my fault, not the guy who said "give him another chance" I appreciate what you're doing but I don't want your reputation to be tarnished by mine.
Give him a chance.
Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice.
3) Stop being immature. Seriously, if you see me being stupid, just call me out, it will be a wakeup call to me.
Give him a chance.
Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.
3) Stop being immature. Seriously, if you see me being stupid, just call me out, it will be a wakeup call to me.
This sounds like you are leaving it up to the Community to babysit you. you are basically saying, 'next time you see me ****ing up, tell me to stop, and i will! tehehe!'
what happened to you leaving?
I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused
this hardly seems a formal apology to me, i dont want to sour this thread but if you would like to apologize i think you should acknowledge and explain the mistakes that were made, not shrug them off and blame immaturity
i really do hope you are sincere, i just feel like perhaps in the downtime you have had and being able to read people thoughts and feelings on the issue a more thoughtful first post could have happened
Pho, you don't need to put yourself on the line again, any stupid decision I make should be my fault, not the guy who said "give him another chance" I appreciate what you're doing but I don't want your reputation to be tarnished by mine.Dw, I was going to leave this thread alone once I had posted that. I'm not going to back you up anymore.
I have had you ignored for a long time and I'll continue doing so until you actually show me you've changed. Telling me a generic apology and then immediately jumping into classified threads doesn't make me want to change my opinion that much.The offer for the plushie? You offered $40, i said no, you said ok ill make my own, and I thought that was it? What am I forgetting about that?
Your apology doesn't make me forget what you called me in IRC or how you handled my offer for your plushie. I don't know what else you've done to the community besides what people have told me so I won't comment there.
If you want me to give you any respect, you'll have to earn it. I hope you find what you want on GH and good luck.
Gotcha. Thanks for the help.I have had you ignored for a long time and I'll continue doing so until you actually show me you've changed. Telling me a generic apology and then immediately jumping into classified threads doesn't make me want to change my opinion that much.The offer for the plushie? You offered $40, i said no, you said ok ill make my own, and I thought that was it? What am I forgetting about that?
Your apology doesn't make me forget what you called me in IRC or how you handled my offer for your plushie. I don't know what else you've done to the community besides what people have told me so I won't comment there.
If you want me to give you any respect, you'll have to earn it. I hope you find what you want on GH and good luck.
you said to call you out when you are starting to act immature again
so i am doing that
that is not an appropriate tone to be taking this early upon your return in a thread about making things right
isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?Nope.
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isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?Nope.
Stop defending and start being humble.Yes, thats true... I never thought of it that way, I just think I'm a defensive person by nature, but I can see what you mean by that. Thanks.
isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?Nope.
Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.
isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?Nope.
Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.
I'm not trying to imply that rarar is mature but age does not always = maturity.
The thing is there's already a number of people on this forum that are younger that me (or same age) That are way more mature than me, and to limit age would not only limit me, but them. Putting the limit at 18 would get rid of a few key members, and putting it at 16, you would have me back in a few months anyways...isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?Nope.
Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.
I'm not trying to imply that rarar is mature but age does not always = maturity.
Yeah, not sure I agree with that one, yeah some people can be more or less mature than others, but age is a pretty good way to gauge ones maturity.
Yeah, not sure I agree with that one, yeah some people can be more or less mature than others, but age is a pretty good way to gauge ones maturity.Sure, it's a pretty good method but there are always exceptions. You shouldn't penalise people of a certain age group just because people like rarar can't behave themselves.
Stop defending and start being humble.
i dont even get how you have a paypal account to to all the selling and buying, do you use your parents?Nope, I have my own.
Honestly, this thread should probably just be locked and we all go on with our lives. If you wish to show improvement, this thread won't help like you being a normal member of the community without all of this drama.Can do. Locking