A formal apology

[rarar]

I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused, and it really could have been avoided on my part if I would have kept my yap shut. I'm going to try and make myself a better part of this community now, and to start that, I'm doing a few things. 
1) Helped create the buying guide on reddit (I know its not GH, but it can be used here) http://www.reddit.com/r/MechanicalKeyboards/comments/1dc8pg/guide_the_rmechanicalkeyboards_firsttime_buying/

2) Going to the MN meetup to help out with the stuff there. 

3) Stop being immature. Seriously, if you see me being stupid, just call me out, it will be a wakeup call to me.

Thanks!
-rarar

[rarar]

Oh, and you can post what you want in here, discuss if you want, doesn't matter to me.

[esoomenona]

Just be aware that people are going to be cautious of you, until there is actual proof things have changed. Don't let that discourage you if this is the truth. You went back on your word a few times, so it is understandable they would feel that way.

[rarar]

Just be aware that people are going to be cautious of you, until there is actual proof things have changed. Don't let that discourage you if this is the truth. You went back on your word a few times, so it is understandable they would feel that way.

Yeah, It's understandable, I can see what I did in the past was really stupid and immature and I'm trying to work on not being that.

[bavman]

It's nice to see that you're trying to be better.

Good luck, and just remember for the future, trust and respect are worth more than a couple hundred dollars.

[rarar]

It's nice to see that you're trying to be better.

Good luck, and just remember for the future, trust and respect are worth more than a couple hundred dollars.

Yes, forsure T_T

[Rare]

lol

[Dubsgalore]

Paging Dr. Klaxon

[Michael]

[BunnyLake]

I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused

this hardly seems a formal apology to me, i dont want to sour this thread but if you would like to apologize i think you should acknowledge  and explain the mistakes that were made, not shrug them off and blame immaturity

i really do hope you are sincere, i just feel like perhaps in the downtime you have had and being able to read people thoughts and feelings on the issue a more thoughtful first post could have happened

[tjcaustin]

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Stealing my saxy gif...

Other than that, I really don't have anything of import to say.

That won't get *me* muted.

[esoomenona]

I do agree with Bunny, in regard to the apology. For the most part, it sounds as though you only regret opening your mouth. But what you did was more than that.

[rarar]

I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused

this hardly seems a formal apology to me, i dont want to sour this thread but if you would like to apologize i think you should acknowledge  and explain the mistakes that were made, not shrug them off and blame immaturity

i really do hope you are sincere, i just feel like perhaps in the downtime you have had and being able to read people thoughts and feelings on the issue a more thoughtful first post could have happened

Yeah, sorry bout the un detailed post, sorta busy with homework, I just noticed I was unmuted so I posted this.

Let me go into some more detail.

I am sorry that I tried to sell the Friday Clack. At points I was considering selling it for profit, and that is a rotten thing for me to have done. Sorta glad it went to someone who needed it for free
I'm sorry about the drama that I caused following the incident, with the gifs, the avatar, my sig, ect. ect. ect... I was just pissed at that moment but I didn't really see what was going on from everyone else's point of view, only my own. Being muted for a week helped me realize the severity of what I had done, and how stupid it was to do it.

I'll post some more later, but I got some history to do.

[Michael]

Stealing my saxy gif...

Wrong, sir. I used it before you. Tis you that stole from thee

[tjcaustin]

Stealing my saxy gif...

Wrong, sir. I used it before you. Tis you that stole from thee

Know how King Klaxon always demands sacrifice?  There's your's.  Relinquishing ownership of dat hawt gif.

[Michael]

Yeah, sorry bout the un detailed post, sorta busy with homework, I just noticed I was unmuted so I posted this.

Let me go into some more detail.

I am sorry that I tried to sell the Friday Clack. At points I was considering selling it for profit, and that is a rotten thing for me to have done. Sorta glad it went to someone who needed it for free
I'm sorry about the drama that I caused following the incident, with the gifs, the avatar, my sig, ect. ect. ect... I was just pissed at that moment but I didn't really see what was going on from everyone else's point of view, only my own. Being muted for a week helped me realize the severity of what I had done, and how stupid it was to do it.

I'll post some more later, but I got some history to do.

This has now turned into an intervention thread

[Sifo]

I was busy during the ****storm so...

[rarar]

Yeah, sorry bout the un detailed post, sorta busy with homework, I just noticed I was unmuted so I posted this.

Let me go into some more detail.

I am sorry that I tried to sell the Friday Clack. At points I was considering selling it for profit, and that is a rotten thing for me to have done. Sorta glad it went to someone who needed it for free
I'm sorry about the drama that I caused following the incident, with the gifs, the avatar, my sig, ect. ect. ect... I was just pissed at that moment but I didn't really see what was going on from everyone else's point of view, only my own. Being muted for a week helped me realize the severity of what I had done, and how stupid it was to do it.

I'll post some more later, but I got some history to do.

This has now turned into an intervention thread

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BECAUSE I KNOW, SOMEWHERE, DEEP DOWN IN MY HEART.....   

I STILL LOVE YOU!!!!

[WhiteFireDragon]

You can start by not thread crapping (in this thread) on your first day back.

[bavman]

This has now turned into an intervention thread

I think you mean Clactervention.

[rarar]

You can start by not thread crapping (in this thread) on your first day back.

Yeah, moose pointed it out, I removed the post.

[Michael]

You can start by not thread crapping (in this thread) on your first day back.

Indeed.

[Photekq]

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Don't give him a chance.

He's already managed to **** up in the very short time he's been back. He's also showing hints of being pissed off already. I only see him ****ing up again and again and becoming more and more enraged.

[rarar]

lol

Give him a chance.

I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice. But at least this time rarar has come back on his own & is trying to make a mends, and isn't doing so because I was forcing him. Instead he's doing it because he wants to which does add some sincerity to his words.

Rarar, tread carefully. It's good that you want people to point out your faults and I hope that it makes you behave like less of an ass. Just don't give up like you did last time and please, PLEASE don't let the words of others influence you into doing something stupid. Also, understand that this isn't something that can be fixed easily. Nobody's gonna back you up until you prove that your attitude has changed.

Yeah, honestly I should have just not said anything once you talked to me, just layed low, and kept the clack, and then none of this would have happened T_T

[ITzNybble]

lol

Give him a chance.

I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice. But at least this time rarar has come back on his own & is trying to make a mends, and isn't doing so because I was forcing him. Instead he's doing it because he wants to which does add some sincerity to his words.

Rarar, tread carefully. It's good that you want people to point out your faults and I hope that it makes you behave like less of an ass. Just don't give up like you did last time and please, PLEASE don't let the words of others influence you into doing something stupid. Also, understand that this isn't something that can be fixed easily. Nobody's gonna back you up until you prove that your attitude has changed.

Church, I agree with this 100%. Glad to see you back though. Never want to see anyone drop off the forum.

[Michael]

Give him a chance.

Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.

[Photekq]

Give him a chance.

Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.

I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice.

[WhiteFireDragon]

You can start by not thread crapping (in this thread) on your first day back.

Yeah, moose pointed it out, I removed the post.

Yeah nm, looks like you removed it. You should've known not to do that in the first place.

[rarar]

Give him a chance.

Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.

I know I've said those exact words before. I was wrong & rarar made the wrong choice.

Pho, you don't need to put yourself on the line again, any stupid decision I make should be my fault, not the guy who said "give him another chance" I appreciate what you're doing but I don't want your reputation to be tarnished by mine.

[Dubsgalore]

3) Stop being immature. Seriously, if you see me being stupid, just call me out, it will be a wakeup call to me.

This sounds like you are leaving it up to the Community to babysit you. you are basically saying, 'next time you see me ****ing up, tell me to stop, and i will! tehehe!'

what happened to you leaving?

[Dubsgalore]

Give him a chance.

Remember the last time you did that? I think you do. Let him fend for himself, that's why he is here doing this.

^^^^

[rarar]

3) Stop being immature. Seriously, if you see me being stupid, just call me out, it will be a wakeup call to me.

This sounds like you are leaving it up to the Community to babysit you. you are basically saying, 'next time you see me ****ing up, tell me to stop, and i will! tehehe!'

what happened to you leaving?

Good point there, should I remove that part? I don't mean for people to babysit me, just want people to point out if I'm being stupid and making dumbass choices.

[Input Nirvana]

I would just like to say sorry for all this **** I caused

this hardly seems a formal apology to me, i dont want to sour this thread but if you would like to apologize i think you should acknowledge  and explain the mistakes that were made, not shrug them off and blame immaturity

i really do hope you are sincere, i just feel like perhaps in the downtime you have had and being able to read people thoughts and feelings on the issue a more thoughtful first post could have happened

This is not targeted to any individual but a general statement:

Different people certainly have very different views of appropriate responses towards issues. I'm personally a "show up and throw up" kinda guy. I want it ALL out there to the point of ad nauseum, no stone left unturned, that's how I see that everyone understands everything that happened, why it happened, what should have been done differently, and what will be different in the future. No mysteries, that's how we learn, but that's just me and maybe that's not much better Another personal note, over time I've become cautious when a slight has occurred involving money, because money is of no "real" value...it's about the principle, being polite, reasonable, and fair. When someone holds cash...that's a problem, it speaks volumes about what they value. I usually don't have much in common with that type of personality, I have a distaste for it, and it's gross. Obviously we generally go to work and sell things for money, but integrity should trump the acquisition of cash. Cash comes and goes, but integrity is part of a persons character.  Use that moral compass, it's in there somewhere!

There's a difference between being frugal and taking advantage. Be certain to know the difference. This last couple years I've gone from the penthouse to the outhouse and may never fully recover from the damage, but what's most important to me is that no one has suffered from my actions/misfortune (only myself) and I haven't gained from the misfortune of others.

[Photekq]

Pho, you don't need to put yourself on the line again, any stupid decision I make should be my fault, not the guy who said "give him another chance" I appreciate what you're doing but I don't want your reputation to be tarnished by mine.

Dw, I was going to leave this thread alone once I had posted that. I'm not going to back you up anymore.

[CPTBadAss]

I have had you ignored for a long time and I'll continue doing so until you actually show me you've changed. Telling me a generic apology and then immediately jumping into classified threads doesn't make me want to change my opinion that much.

Your apology doesn't make me forget what you called me in IRC or how you handled my offer for your plushie. I don't know what else you've done to the community besides what people have told me so I won't comment there.

If you want me to give you any respect, you'll have to earn it. I hope you find what you want on GH and good luck.

[rarar]

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[BunnyLake]

I have had you ignored for a long time and I'll continue doing so until you actually show me you've changed. Telling me a generic apology and then immediately jumping into classified threads doesn't make me want to change my opinion that much.

Your apology doesn't make me forget what you called me in IRC or how you handled my offer for your plushie. I don't know what else you've done to the community besides what people have told me so I won't comment there.

If you want me to give you any respect, you'll have to earn it. I hope you find what you want on GH and good luck.

The offer for the plushie? You offered $40, i said no, you said ok ill make my own, and I thought that was it? What am I forgetting about that?

you said to call you out when you are starting to act immature again

so i am doing that

that is not an appropriate tone to be taking this early upon your return in a thread about making things right

[rarar]

I have had you ignored for a long time and I'll continue doing so until you actually show me you've changed. Telling me a generic apology and then immediately jumping into classified threads doesn't make me want to change my opinion that much.

Your apology doesn't make me forget what you called me in IRC or how you handled my offer for your plushie. I don't know what else you've done to the community besides what people have told me so I won't comment there.

If you want me to give you any respect, you'll have to earn it. I hope you find what you want on GH and good luck.

The offer for the plushie? You offered $40, i said no, you said ok ill make my own, and I thought that was it? What am I forgetting about that?

you said to call you out when you are starting to act immature again

so i am doing that

that is not an appropriate tone to be taking this early upon your return in a thread about making things right

Gotcha. Thanks for the help.

[missalaire]

[baldgye]

isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?

[rarar]

isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?

Nope.

[rarar]

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Missalaire is not only the finder of great finds, but the finder of great drama :) Always there with her popcorn.

[Input Nirvana]

Stop defending and start being humble.

[baldgye]

isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?

Nope.

Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.

[rarar]

Stop defending and start being humble.

Yes, thats true... I never thought of it that way, I just think I'm a defensive person by nature, but I can see what you mean by that. Thanks.

[Photekq]

isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?

Nope.

Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.

I'm not trying to imply that rarar is mature but age does not always = maturity.

[baldgye]

isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?

Nope.

Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.

I'm not trying to imply that rarar is mature but age does not always = maturity.

Yeah, not sure I agree with that one, yeah some people can be more or less mature than others, but age is a pretty good way to gauge ones maturity.

[rarar]

isn't there an age limit on user sign ups ?

Nope.

Well this has acted as a clear example of why there should be.

I'm not trying to imply that rarar is mature but age does not always = maturity.

Yeah, not sure I agree with that one, yeah some people can be more or less mature than others, but age is a pretty good way to gauge ones maturity.

The thing is there's already a number of people on this forum that are younger that me (or same age) That are way more mature than me, and to limit age would not only limit me, but them. Putting the limit at 18 would get rid of a few key members, and putting it at 16, you would have me back in a few months anyways...

[Photekq]

Yeah, not sure I agree with that one, yeah some people can be more or less mature than others, but age is a pretty good way to gauge ones maturity.

Sure, it's a pretty good method but there are always exceptions. You shouldn't penalise people of a certain age group just because people like rarar can't behave themselves.

[AriesX]

i dont even get how you have a paypal account to to all the selling and buying, do you use your parents?