Leslieann just comes off as brusk/curt/blunt. That can easily be interpreted as condescending, or combative, without being able to hear tonality, see gestures and facial cues, etc. I don't think that that's the case. She just tries to make people consider all of the hurdles before they commit to something fairly daunting.
I suppose we all need a healthy dose of reality now and again.
No hard feelings Leslieann 
That^
I've worked in too many industries where you say what needs to be said and be done (not to mention I'll ramble forever if I don't).
It wasn't intended as mean, sorry if I come off that way.
Speaking of rambling...
I've been thinking about this a bit and I'm convinced the gourd shape will not do what you want, that's a progressive spring, not two stage.
About the only way I can come up with to make it two stage is by having two very different rates and one will need to be almost fully compressed before the other even starts to compress. If the second half starts to compress at all before the other is done it will simply feel progressive.
Going from a 62 to 70gram spring is not quite what you think. Those are bottom out rates (Cherry measures at activation), a 62g may start at 40 and ramp to 62, while a 70 will start at say 45 and end at 70. Its actually going to lead to a less(!) progressive spring that starts at 40 (because of the the 62g) and ends at 70 (probably less since the spring will not be fully compressed) which is actually about what a Cherry red/blue/brown spring is. Note these are guesstimates on rates I did not verify them I'm just using them as an example to show what will happen.
What you need is a spring that starts at 40 and peaks at 60 (for the first half), then the second half starts at say 75 and ends at 90.
Something to note, if this transition happens in the wrong place on a clicky or tactile switch the feel could be obliterated by the switch itself, you may just want to focus on a linear switch but even then you need to find the right spring rates and position for it. I'd recommend modeling it in cad to try and get it as close to the activation point as possible, while you may think just transition at the mid point, that won't work as the first half completely compresses while the second will not and the transition will move, at least some, depending on the rates, being closer to the center when the rates are closer and further as they drift apart. Also, you can't just take a 62g spring winding and cut it in half and expect it to be 40-62g anymore, you removed half the coils, it's probably something more like 50-75g now.
Springs will mess with your head almost as bad as air pressure/volume calculations.
Edit:
You posted while I was working on this... Sorry. LOL
I hope the info helps though.