Hi Zethia. Welcome to Geekhack.
That CTRL seems extremely popular, and I have been tempted by it myself. I'm a clicky guy, so I've got no experience, or opinion, on boutique tactiles. I don't think anybody started with exactly what they'll eventually end up with, and I frame it exactly like that on purpose. For modern switches, I love Kailh box jades and navies. I used to be perfectly content with MX blues, and now I think they're terrible by comparison. When Silo beam springs come out, I may jump ship once more to those, and I may even still find some less common box switch variants that I end up preferring, etc, etc. The important thing is that you took the dive, and you'll figure out what you like as you go.
I also wouldn't let people put you down for buying an OEM board. I don't personally think anybody who just assembles LEGO boards from parts has a leg to stand on in disparaging those who have not. Literally anybody could do it with a cheap Weller iron and a bare minimum of watching decent soldering tutorials. RGB is personal preference as well. You may get the occasional bad*** that shows off the fact that he's got no legends on his keyboard, etc, but I have never seen it here. I think it is pretty well accepted that some people are phenomenal typists, regardless of their typing style, and RGB is otherwise personal taste anyway, even for touch typists like myself.
I haven't seen anybody be elitist about it here, although I do think that sometimes it is assumed that they are when they say things like how soldered switches are more reliable than ones in hot swap sockets. I can't say I have run into a single person who means it that way though. You be you.