I agree, I hate the direction Ubuntu has gone, but I still recommend it to all of my Linux n00b friends. Actually, KDE and Gnome have really gone downhill for me as well... they just seem to be Windows Vista-ing the linux desktop environment. It just feels bloated and gross. My favorite Linux desktops are XFCE, E17, and Fluxbox, depending on the machine. Unfortunately after more than a decade as a loyal Linux fan, I gave up on desktop Linux about a year ago, and use it exclusively for servers now. There are just too many tools specific to my industry that do not run on Linux, and if I'm going to run a Windows VM to run them, I might as well just run Windows.