I never got why the TI calculators are so dominant in the schools.
The HP ones with RPN are definitely nice if you approach math that way.
The Casio ones are cheaper for comparable functionality (often like $70 instead of 130), and offer crude, semi-colour screens.
You're talking about fairly advanced calculators here. In reality, you'll most likely need a calculator with just exp, log, ln, PI as a constant, sin, cos, tan, asin, acos and atan. There should also be several variables to save stuff. A calculation history is really nice, as is the possibility to enter your stuff as a whole without using several steps (but this needs a scrollable display).
You'll have to try hard finding a calculator that doesn't fulfill these requirements.
My somewhat cheap TI can do much, much more than that. I don't even know how certain statistical functions it offers WORK, and I've had it for quite a long time now. My "top of the range" non-graphical non-programmable Casio can do even more than that, but I don't use much of its functionality either. The 9850 I had in school was just crappy and offered extremely slow graphics capabilities, up to the point it became downright silly.
In school, I had a Casio 9850 (with said semi-colour screen), and it was mildly annoying that the textbook examples never followed my equipment.
You have textbook examples with specific calculator instructions? Wow--we didn't have anything like that as far as I can remember. The 9850, however, is an exceptionally bad calculator. I think it was employed by Casio to be as cheap as possible to please the entry-level market for graphical calculators (read: schools. My school bought the calculators and lent them to us). Unluckily, this leads to extremely unpleasant situations, namely the bloody thing being so horribly slow its advanced features hardly are of any use at all. If plotting some graphs takes ages, you'd be better of solving them by your own, maybe with help from the equation solver. But even equation solvers on these devices can be painfully slow (or just a pain to use, with confusing UI, mushy buttons and all), so you'll decide to just do it by hand instead.
This is exactly the point where an advanced calculator becomes utterly useless; if it's barely faster/more comfortable than doing it by hand, you could as well just let it be. I'm not particularily fond of the 9850 for this very reason: It's just a pain to use, so it utterly fails as a tool.
-huha