If you want blues without the click, lube them. A lot. Or use whites.
Browns and clears have a very different kind of tactility and still aren't silent—they make a "grinding" sound, unless broken in or lubed.
Dampeners affect only the feel and sound of bottoming out. If you bottom out heavily, get stiffer springs or change the way you type. Otherwise, there's no point (other than reduced key travel and mushy landing) in using dampeners, because the upstroke still isn't quiet. For that, there's currently only the latex mod. Or dampened Alps.