Well, I did a more extended test with both keyboards. The spacebar on the variable-weight seems to require more pressure than the 55g one, which is weird considering that it's supposed to be 45g. I pulled it out and took a look underneath, but nothing looked out of place. The rest of the keys though felt about the same, just that the 45g version is noticeably lighter. The spacebar is still an oddity though.
I think the reason why I thought it was really mushy at first was cuz I went straight form the Filco browns to the Realforce. I gotta say, I really prefer the clickiness of the Filco keys over the Realforce and I can't wait for the blue Otaku to come back in stock.
Oh, I also compared it to the HHKB. The spacebar on the Realforce is definitely stiffer than the HHKB's one, even though both are supposed to be 45g.