I don't think people really want to contact his family or anything like that. I don't really care as long as I get my caps, eventually.
What irks me is, when you start a group buy, when you receive money from your buyers, you take on the responsibility to see it through, that means getting what people ordered in the group buy into the group buyers hands. What is this chicken **** that you start something and then just give up when you run into some issue? If you haven't thought it through what it takes to do a group buy, then don't start it. If $3 is not enough for shipping, and I don't think it is, just say it. Not able to ship all the packages at once and then just give up seems kind of lame to me.