Changdrew, I am very sorry to hear that you had a family emergency. I know that is rough. I hope things work out for the best.
That said, a simple phone call to a friend or SOMEONE on here or DT who could let us know what was going on would have been appreciated.
For those of you on your high horse about being patient and not filing disputes with Paypal or whatever, just climb on down, fellows. We were ALL very patient with Changdrew during the group buy phase and beyond; so much so, in fact, that the dispute period with Paypal had lapsed for almost every single one of us. The ONLY reason you got your refunds is because the majority of us raised some kind of hell with either Paypal or our card issuer or bank.
/rant