Ugh. Firstly no, we weren't discussing just your situation obviously, my usage of "you" is a thing called rhetoric, not talking about your specific situation, this should have been fairly obvious as you were making a case for owning firearms for home defense which is what I was rebutting.
Secondly, if we
are talking about your specific situation - as an aside - then sorry, but I have no faith in your abilities in that kind of situation whatsoever, frankly. Admittedly, just from what I've read from you here, which isn't much, but from what I've read so far you just fit the archetype someone overcompensating for physical/emotional weakness (those are usually the kind of guys that jerk off over firearms and fantasise about vigilante type situations).
But none of that matters, because statistically/logically owning a firearm for home defence makes very little sense, except in very narrow circumstances. In order to be useful in a home invasion situation both the firearm and ammunition need to be somewhere closeby, probably in the same place, most likely insecure (as opposed to in a locked safe), and possibly even loaded. This is one the most irresponsible things a firearm owner can possibly do and the odds of a situation occuring where the firearm saves your life/property are massively outweighed by the chances of:
* Your kid(s) finding the firearm and injuring/killing themselves/you/someone else.
* Another member of your family or an acquaintance finding and taking the firearm, and selling/lending it into the black market (which is where most firearms circulating the USA come from, rather than from across the border or whatever).
* An intruder stealing it, either through burglary while you're not there/asleep, or taking it from you by force. Then either using it against you/your family, committing another crime with it, or it finding it's way into the black market as per above.
Case 3: Bad guy comes into my house, I have guns, and I know how to use them.
If you think "knowing how to use them" means you're immune to being forcibly disarmed then you're utterly naive and hopelessly delusional in your own abilities. There's only so much anyone can do in a given circumstances - good luck if you end up pointing your pistol at one intruder and then another one whom you didn't even know was there comes up behind you and swings a bat into your head.