So many good and valid points made in these recent posts, and kudos for sharing your experiences. It's been a hard road for most of you.
I agree in the separation of church and state.
A political party should not have influence in the governance of the church and vice versa. However I consider it irresponsible to completely abstain from voting for "religious" reasons. If you have no preference at all for either party and they're both just as "evil" in your opinion, then sure, abstain. But if one party is "less evil" in your eyes, abstaining will make it more likely for the "more evil" party to be voted in (since your vote would have opposed them). And if we "stop voting for evil politicians" then who is left to vote for?
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That is
almost a valid reason for abstention, but since one party will get in despite your abstention, don't you have to a duty to try to make it the one that has a better chance of making people's lives better?
About abortion, my view is shaped from science, ethics and philosophy, with a little personal experience thrown in. It should not even be a "religious" issue, IMO.
At conception, the cells of the embryo are not the same as that of the mother, they are genetically and chemically different. They constitute a
separate living organism, with my definition of "living" derived from biological definitions (if something has metabolism and growth it fits well inside the defining boundaries). Admittedly, it's supported by the mother, with complete dependence on everything it needs. However, there are different levels of dependence at different stages, depending on it's needs and it's current capability. A newborn baby has the same dependence for food and caretaking as a fetus, the only aspect that it's no longer dependent on is breathing / oxygen.
Many people confuse the issue by asking "when does a fetus become a
person"? That's impossible to answer, IMHO. Is it when the blood starts to flow? When there are detectable brainwave patterns? When the heart starts beating? Better safe than sorry, I say. If left without interference, a fertilised egg will first become a fetus and then a baby. The number of mothers who've aborted who regret the decision is high, and sometimes the emotional burden is immense. There are cases that deserve consideration, such as rape and very severe disabilities detected early, but those are edge case and should be considered on a case by case basis, by the parents, medical professionals and experienced counselors.
My sister fell pregnant at the age of 15. It really was not feasible to raise a child in our home at the time, life was rather... complicated. Our father died while she was pregnant. Abortion was never considered, however. When the baby was born he was put up for adoption. Sad story, but life continued and she moved on. Then in 2008 he made contact with our family after his wife persuaded him
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It's just amazing to see the man he has become. The world is most definitely a better place for having him in it and I doubt any person would in the long term feel differently about other "unwanted pregnancies".
Like I said, however, I think that's actually at least partly off-topic for the thread, since I don't consider it a "religious" issue as such.
@Waateva: Yes, Jesus came to fulfill the Law. Which He did by meeting all of the requirements and becoming the guilt sacrifice for all men. This frees us from the letter of the law, since by following the spirit of it, we are adhering to it more accurately than by doing the rituals / following it by the letter. Look at the passages where Jesus is accused of doing work on the Sabbath and breaking Laws of the Sabbath. In all cases He had not broken the actual letter of the law, but the interpretations of these laws over time led to such strict limitations that the spirit of it was lost. Something interesting to note in the summary of the Law given by Jesus is the requirement to also love oneself. Lots of people focus on the "loving your neighbour" part and neglect the "as yourself" and many of them even neglect the "Love God" part.
And how can you love someone you've never met or don't know much about? Many religions follow the route of trying to show such "love" through ritual and many works, discipline and sacrifice. But that's not the same as truly loving, which requires knowing the person you're supposed to love and letting your "acts of devotion" flow naturally from your love for them. So I don't consider most of the rituals and disciplines of many churches and religions to be all that valuable, except for the general self control and natural benefits of such acts, unless they match how you personally desire to show your love for Him.
And many people know that they
should love God, so they try through these types of actions, without realising the emptiness of such gestures without
actual love for God.
1 Corinthians 13:3 - "If I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it does me no good at all."
It's all about your personal interaction with the Creator. And he respects honesty over "works".
For many years I was angry with Him about my father's death, but I wouldn't admit it to myself because I'd been indoctrinated with thoughts like "who knows the thoughts of God", "His ways are not our ways", "He is perfect", "you don't question Him", etc. Eventually I'd had enough and verbally let Him have it, serious fury and tears, etc. I prefer not to think of what my neighbours must have thought. And that marked the start of a new, far more intimate and honest relationship with Him. I didn't realise how much that was holding me back and how much He prefers honesty to trying to do the right thing.
@neverused: I agree that it wasn't right to take pagan rituals and celebrations and "Christianise" them. That's what led to the weird mishmash of traditions we have at Christmas and Easter. It would be better if they were left separate and we could celebrate the birth, death and resurrection of Christ without all the leftover associated pagan traditions mixed in.
Freedom from rituals that are not benefiting you is fine and noble. It's better to be honest than to pour energy into "empty" works.
IMHO, Christianity is very much a personal thing. It's about you and God, not you and the church and your family and friends and the dog and God, although there are benefits to meeting with likeminded people who have the same worldview that comes from this personal relationship. It's like being in a group of people who have a common close friend, just that the friend happens to be the Creator, which changes the dynamics slightly.