While I can follow your arguments Oobly, I still posit two overarching problems that are not specifically yet addressed:
1. The arguments tend to lean towards a 'God of the Gaps' type of reasoning that I've already mentioned. Interestingly, while science is now used as the primary (and I dare say only possible) means of describing the universe around us, the counterpoints to science made here so far appear to be done... using science. Which is of course how science is supposed to work. However, religions have twiddled their thumbs for millennia, secure in their beliefs. When science started to produce vast quantities of material indicating that some of those deeply rooted beliefs are either misguided at best and blatantly wrong at the worst, there is now this scramble to find these gaps in science as last bastions of faith and proof for a deity of some sort.
Inevitably upon gaining enough scientific knowledge to see some type of a gap in our collective understanding, one points at it as conclusive proof and leans back in contentment that their work is done. This is much easier to do so, of course, than to spend your entire life in academia looking for alternative explanations (which may be much more difficult to comprehend), as science has done over past few centuries. I find this kind of process just a bit disingenuous.
As a side note, it is extremely hard for the human brain to process phenomena that occur in geologic time scale. Millions and billions of years are quite hard to visualize. I do wonder if you accept for example that the solar system formed over a significant time span, and that the various chemical elements on Earth are a result of them being seeded by early cosmic processes.
2. Supposing even just for a second that said gaps are in fact indications of some sort of intelligent tampering, I fail to see how it logically follows that this is proof of a God. Leaving even the arguments of 'which God' also aside, a God is an extremely loaded concept to insert into such a gap, with a lot of excess baggage. Does it really have to be, for example (apologies if too extreme) "we don't know exactly how abiogenesis happened, therefore every word in the Bible is literally true and you will burn in hell for not believing"?
I believe I stated in an earlier post that science and faith are not in opposition and in fact are to some degree interdependent. You cannot have science without faith, since it's required for making the step from gathering evidence supporting a hypothesis, to accepting it as true in the general case. I am certainly not postulating a "god of the gaps". I could easily turn the argument around and accuse Dawkins et al of postulating an "evolution of the gaps". I am inferring to the best explanation, which happens to be a Creator. I do not claim "God did it" for each and every failing of science to render a clear picture of the universe, in fact I trust that science shows an ever more detailed picture of the amazing work of the Creator.
What I am saying, though, is that it's reasonable for an individual with an interest in science and a good head on their shoulders to believe in God. It is by no means an intellectual dead end. In fact, it opens up even more possibilities and makes of science an even more meaningful pastime in the pursuit of further truth. I don't find it surprising that many of the greatest scientists in history believed / believe in God: Kepler, Galileo, Newton, Faraday, Maxwell, Einstein, Planck, Schrodinger, Heisenberg, etc. When you have a worldview that explains the reason for being able to make sense of the universe it gives a good foundation for trying to do just that.
If you hold to the current theories of stellar evolution, then yes, all dense elements were supposedly created through cycles of stellar birth and death with light elements initially created by the big bang. I don't claim to be an expert in cosmology or the life cycles of stars, but I do know there are some severe problems with the current theories. Either way, I don't have any fundamental problem with that.
I do believe that the universe had a beginning in the process that's colloqially called the "big bang", but in my view it was more of a big stretch (which better explains the vortex-like nature of galaxies). Interesting that the cosmic background radiation points to an increasing expansion rate. This means the ancient Greek cyclic philosophy is incorrect and there really was a beginning and will be an end. It also means that uniformity theory goes out the window.
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But what I am sick and tired of is people using what they "believe" to browbeat other people who do not share those beliefs.
If anyone ever showed me even a tiny shred of evidence for the existence of the Hebrew God, I would take it very seriously and might adjust my opinions accordingly.
I agree with this view completely, which is why I get rather upset with people like Dawkins who push their beliefs with such passion, and rail against belief in God so furiously. He and others like him give atheism a bad name, when in fact they practice a form of anti-theism instead.
There is, however, one point in favour of Christians sharing their belief and it's best illustrated by putting yourself in their shoes. If you had a revelation of experiencing interaction with the Creator, wouldn't you feel it worth the ire of others to at least try to tell them about it? Or would your conscience let you leave them in their ignorance through politeness?
There is already a large body of evidence for the existence of God, as I said before. The universe itself speaks of Him through its rationality, fine tuning, beauty and more, we have written testimony and witness and we have the existence of self awareness, conciousness, creativity, morals and love in our own natures. This is meant to be enough to take the next step yourself.