id just like to make one more post, and unless something comes up that i feel forced to respond about, ill leave it here
nobody wants all this silliness and drama, it isnt good for anybody, i didnt want this to happen to me, i had felt belittled by this person for a long time, and sadly i did nothing when i should have spoken out earlier, unfortunately in light of the fake bro bot issue and mitos support for it, as well as him starting to attack other members such as JD and nubbs, i did snap, i said some things that were out of character for me, and not acceptable, that being said, to me, and how i felt, they were justified, just because we are online, doesnt mean this long standing harassment and embarrassment is ok, in banning people from ctrl alt who supported him, i did the wrong thing, i was wanting to punish him for my anguish, and not the community, so i have withdrawn that. it disgusts me what he has and will continue to get away with unless people speak out about it as they have done, sadly too many people look for excuses, ive heard a lot of people saying he is young, as if that is some sort of excuse, we have tons of young and upstanding members, who are not manipulative bullies, what he has been doing is calculated, and unacceptable
ive had a lot of support in both comments and pms, and im very grateful to everyone who has seen this for what is is, and given me words or support and encouragement, even though i was being reactionary, hot headed and overly passionate
please understand that this is a very sore subject for me, and as much as i want it to settle down, and not go on longer than it has to, its still upsetting, and id appreciate if people didnt post excuses or support for mito here in my subforum, i dont wanna censor your opinions, but there are other places to express them, this is my little area of the forum, the subject is open for discussion, particularly about what has already happened, but his actions are not defensible or redeemable in my eyes