At my workplace, once or twice a year, we have these offsite "Mandatory Funtivites", everyone is supposed to go. This time it is at a Dave and Busters about 30 minutes away from the office, which for me is an additional 30 minutes away from my house - I already have an hour long one way commute. I struggle in places with a lot of noise, I can find it extremely stressful. I like concerts and all that, but then it is doing something I want to do, with someone I want to do it with, and usually I am going by myself anyway. Here I'm supposed to socialize and deal with all the din of humanity and...whatever, it is just not fun for me.
So I said to my boss that I'm not going. It just isn't worth it. 5 hours of non-stop ruckus in a place I don't want to be just to satisfy some corporate need to make us all "have fun" is NOT fun. He is not happy with me. I don't care. There is just only so much I can take and this was just asking too much today. Now I'm sitting in the quite office because everyone is gone. The only sound is my keyboard as I'm typing, and I am sure I made the right choice, consequences be damned! I'd rather work until 5pm by myself than be someplace I don't want to be, pretending I want to be there.