My point is that you can't tell from reviews what is going to be reliable or not. Companies can pay people to review products, reviews can be wrong, and it just isn't a major factor on an individual basis, as you may get the one car out of 1000 that doesn't have breaks even so.
It isn't just as black and white as 'How long does it last?'. Bad PSUs will have all sorts of issues - such as inability to deliver correct amperage under load, excessive heat, weird noises when pushed under load, and of course complete and utter failure to deliver the rated wattage - either where the system just turns off, or the PSU burns out, complete with smoke, loud bangs, and sometimes flames. All these can be tested for out of the box, and if your PSU can get over all that, the odds are that it's going to last quite a good deal longer than one that doesn't.
You mention issues with the objectivity of reviews, and how they are limited by the quality of the one unit they receive. This is true. This is why I read every review I can find, and also read anecdotal evidence from people on the internet who make use of them. And usually you can spot the sellout reviewers - usually the ones that give everything five stars.
Ultimately, you seem to be saying that buying good PSUs is pointless because they
could fail within 2-3 years. Well, nothing in life is certain, so yeah, they could fail. But they are an awful lot less likely to explode into flames after a few moths compared with some 'whitebox' junk. Besides, 5 year warranty on a Corsair-brand Seasonic unit? Yes please!
I think you're making an argument where there is none.
You're paying out the nose for what people think won't fail 2-3 years down the road, is no different than buying a psu from apple that cost $400, and is a 1000% markup on the parts.
Ehh, no.
Seriously, unless you are prepared to qualify that statement, it's like "the grass is not green".
Besides there's a lot of over-engeering that goes into most of those overpriced psu's. Why pay $200 for a psu that is built to last 10 years, when the average lifespan of a computer is 3. My mother's system's 8 years old cause she doesn't need much power for what she does, email and whatnot, she's had 1 psu failure in the last few months on an 8 year old system that's been running continuously..and I didn't pay anywhere near a major amount of the original one that failed, and it died cause it was full of dust, not from manufacturer fault. Her system was never anywhere near a gaming rig of course.
Asides from the fact that computers these days have a much longer useful life than 3 years, you seem to contradict yourself by talking about 8 year old computers.
The fact that your mother's PC isn't some mad gaming rig illustrates the point further. If a bad PSU is going to flare out on some low end computer, what chance is it going to stand with a high end CPU/Graphics card or loads of hard drives.?
If I were going to build 50000 systems, I would want to review every part that went into a psu to make sure it was quality, but on an individual basis stuff like that just isn't that reliable or important.
Shame that major OEMs don't think like that.
To me it's a lot like you're arguing that I should buy a $200 dvdrw, when there are ones out now for $30, that are perfectly fine and do what I want. The return on the cost from $30 to $200 just isn't that much.
As pointed out above, the DVD drive isn't going to kill the expensive parts of your computer when it fails.