I am a well-establish member of GH because I've been a member since 2011 and not once have I come up with the genius idea of threatening artisan makers, writing passive-aggressive open letters of disproval, or you know, just being a really annoying attention-seeking spammer, in hopes of getting caps.
I've always treated people with respect, made an effort to keep a lighthearted and respectful attitude, and hoped for the best.
Treat others how you would treat yourself, don't cry about losing artisan raffles, and try to contribute to the community in one way or another. That's the true meaning of a well-established member.