Guys, guys, guys,
Lanx, when your mom tells you to stop saying gays and you want her to effectively stop nagging and just say okay. (not "I don't need to be told". What happens when you tell your mom that)
Guys, you guys forgot the point. You guys are arguing just for the sake of arguing. You clearly don't think so now, but this really has gotten out of hand.
Lanx, please just be the bigger man and just say something along the lines of "okay, I respect gay people and all that jazz"
sth and hasshbaz, I get the feeling Lanx really isn't that harsh to gays, just you guys.
I am not a buddhist, but their teachings actually mean more than just fancy ideas or catchy words.
His first teaching is tolerance. No matter your religion, or moral code, tolerate the ones you conciser "intolerable". Why teach the ignorant when they are not ready to understand. Might ass well throw a rock at a wall. I believe when you come to terms with another's beliefs and speak to them eye to eye; that is when work gets done. It helps make life so much easier.
Think of your idea as if it was the top of a rock wall. When you are explaining your idea with reasons that only makes sense to you. It is like you getting on one side of a pulley and just pulling the recipient up to your idea. They will touch your idea but they will not grasp the stones as tight on the way up. If you want to teach, you have to come down to their level and show them every stone on the wall as if you were their eyes, not just the guy at the end of the pulley. When teaching there must be tolerance. There will be questioning and there will be backlash. If anyone of you are right, the teacher, you should tolerate the other's ideas.
I believe things should be done by example. Somehow people pick up on that more than words.
sth, Lanx, hashbaz, if someone doesn't respect a certain action let's not antagonize them by repeating it.
Anyways, too deep.
It is the Internet. The internet is pretty ****ed up. Let's just accept each other for who we are and suck each other's ****s.
I just hope you guys don't teach kids to say words like "gay".
You may understand what it may and may-not mean, but that doesn't mean the youth you use them around do.
phetto: gay is not to descriptive. I do use the term when I am around mature family members, but I don't like it when youth's use them. They do not value vocabulary and they use terms that should not be use in such a way. When there is no definite meaning to a word people misinterpret things more often. A lot of assuming is going on. It is not very clear in my book.
It is not your culture because of were you are from but more of just the type of people you guys are and age group you guys are in.
I am not sure if you believe what you said in the second line but I know in my environment, there are "fresh, new, flexible, liberal" as much as "conservative, old-fashioned".
I noticed it right away when sth mentioned you and pushed you away as if you were an outsider, but what you said is quite ignorant also.
There are a lot of people here in America, and there is not just one culture. There are sooooo many. I will not assume how it is where you are because I really don't know. I have not been there and I will try to not let what people say about another country influence me. In my eyes, I don't see people in color or dressed in their homeland's color. I see people for people. Please, I am genuinely interested in how it is like in Sweden. I do love Swedish music.
I am eighteen. My family was from Asia, they are quite conservative. I grew up more recently, and far from Asia. I have been in apart of many culture-groups. I have been apart in Asians, Mexicans, Caucasians, African-Americans, Rich, Poor, Internet, Gaming, Stoner, Partiers, Skaters, Nerds, Jocks, Elderly, little kids, big kids. They are all very vast and polar at times. The one thing I am not entirely exposed to is the European culture. I can only assume that I know nothing at all.
It is getting late here, Good night all.