I enjoy the FEEL of clicky switches better than the "tactile" switches I've tried, but I don't really enjoy the audible volume of the clickers.
This has sort of been my problem.
Tactiles are just missing something, sound, feel, dunno, but they never are as nice as clickys, but I can't stand the noise of clickeys.
There are some options but so you know, they are either difficult or expensive and can easily become a rabbit hole of experimentation and wallet abuse.
Box switches (Jades?), because the clicker is a separate part you can use different click springs and click spring lube to alter the click feel and sound.
Zeal 62g Zealios These are tactiles, but they aren't the same tactiles you're used to. They have a harsher bump than most others and offer a different sound and feel.
Zeal 62g Zilents, yes, I know this sounds completely opposite as they're silent but somehow actually manage to bring something. I didn't like that total silence at first but I grew to love it.
The last one is a wildcard and an utter nightmare, hand-wired Jailhouse Blues. When done right these still retain the click sound, but only about half volume. Think of it as a half-click. As I said though, these are an utter nightmare to make. You will need to hand wire each stem, trim springs, lube and then make sure each one functions smoothly before putting them back. Believe it or not, if you remove a bit more click noise they feel remarkably similar to 62g Zealios.
Just remember, Zeals are rated by spring but the stem also changes depending on spring.
Edit: just saw your second post, take a look at 62g Zealios, it sounds like what you're after.