I thought I would share some of my thoughts with you guys.
In last around 5 years i've been very busy at work - working a lot, like 24/7. I was losing time with my family, giving 110% of myself at work etc.
After around 18 years of work in total I feel like I'm fed up with all those jobs, fed up living in a city and want to change soemething in my live. I want to move out and l live somewhere in a country.
I don't want to keep going in this stressful live anymore, I want peace, I want to do something that will make me happy and keep me healthy, mentally and physically.
I'm tired of this overall stress. In last years I noticed I've been developing a nice little depression and started to physically feel it all. I haven't gone to doctor with this, but in last year I started to have these weird panic moments, when I couldn't breath and felt like elephant was sitting on my chest, just driving down to work. It goes bad in evenings and mornings. I fell better during the day. I started to have weird fears, like don't want to go out, see people, do anymore projects at work. So I decided to quit my job and I did it...
Now, after 2 weeks of sitting at home I started to feel better a bit, fears and panic moments stopped, I think... Thing is, now I need to look for a new job, so new stress started;)
Anyway, in last 2 years I kept telling my wife that I want to change something in my life, want to get a job, where I won't feel stressed all tthe time. I've been IT my whole life and I loved it, but lately my last two jobs in last 10 years changed my feelings towards computers and IT in general, I started not to like it. This is weird as since I was a little kid I loved them som much, I knew that I will be IT and wanted to work with computers my whole life. I kept telling my wife I would like to move out from the city, even something that radical like drop everything and live in a small log house in the middle of nowhere, just to stop seeing all those fake people at work, listen to their crap and pretend we are all "family" and working together for something better...
I never thought that sitting in front of computer for 10-15 hours a day will make me sad...
Funny. I've been looking at houses in Sweden, Denmark, Canada. Far from cities, like in small villages. Search for ways to work from home, something I could do, not going out etc
Oh, and this is not middle age crisis!:) I just turned 39 2 weeks ago, but still have that funny 18 year old guy inside who loves computer games... and keyboards!
I don't know... just sitting at home and trying to find something I could do and thought I would type something up here to see what my fellow geeks would say...
Does anyone have the same feeling? That would like to drop the life you've been having and move to some quiet place?